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Date Posted: 12:39:26 07/25/03 Fri
Author: Chel
Subject: Okay, here's one for the group discussion

I met this friend of a friend a while back (swear to god this is true not one of those cliche things). We had a really interesting discussion and was wondering what all you girls think (this isn't one for you as I know this isn't your thing blade but I would be interested in your opinion). She had a relationship early in her life with this guy, things ended badly and they both married other people. They now have a once or twice a year thing going.

My question is this, do you think it is possible to love two men who are totally different in every way, at the same time? She says she loves them both equally but is better friends with the guy she married. She has been married for about 21 years so this has been going on for a long time. I really don't know what to think of it all.

Thoughts, comments

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Replies:

She cheats -- Blade, 18:10:42 07/25/03 Fri
- I think....... -- bren, 18:51:24 07/25/03 Fri
  - He doesn't -- Chel, 10:52:33 07/26/03 Sat
    - I think... -- bren, 17:19:20 07/26/03 Sat
      - That's awful -- Chel, 22:17:25 07/26/03 Sat
        Well... -- spags, 03:51:27 07/27/03 Sun
        Porn is great -- Blade, 23:51:13 07/29/03 Tue
        well so much to say -- sharon, 09:57:59 07/30/03 Wed
        I dont get how thats cheating -- Blade, 13:26:40 07/30/03 Wed
        Your right...... -- Bren, 16:11:35 07/30/03 Wed
        mmmm -- Blade, 01:41:14 07/31/03 Thu
        Porn... -- spags, 08:30:42 08/01/03 Fri
        Everyone is different -- Chel, 11:39:30 08/01/03 Fri
        yeah but chel -- sharon, 18:19:56 08/06/03 Wed
        Tell me about it -- Chel, 14:00:19 08/07/03 Thu
        i know -- sharon, 17:26:33 08/07/03 Thu
        ROFL!!! -- spags, 02:06:26 08/08/03 Fri
        Thats right -- Chel, 12:20:52 08/08/03 Fri
        OMG... -- spags, 23:56:33 08/08/03 Fri
        yeah -- Blade, 00:23:32 08/09/03 Sat
        thanks for your support guys............. -- bren, 11:27:57 08/09/03 Sat
        yeah -- Blade, 16:36:31 08/09/03 Sat
        You take this weeks prize -- Chel, 18:55:29 08/09/03 Sat
        hehehe what a cool grandma -- sharon, 19:02:24 08/09/03 Sat
        I worry about Gennna too............. -- bren, 04:01:55 08/10/03 Sun
        Ouch my head -- Blade, 04:20:27 08/10/03 Sun
        there. there....... -- bren, 15:21:59 08/10/03 Sun
        Pffffft -- Blade, 15:56:03 08/10/03 Sun
        you are right......... -- bren, 16:42:04 08/10/03 Sun
        Still grounded... -- spags, 01:22:21 08/12/03 Tue
        you get that -- Blade, 04:18:41 08/12/03 Tue
        Aww honey... -- spags, 07:16:40 08/12/03 Tue
        virtual hugs to Blade....... -- bren, 10:30:32 08/12/03 Tue
        I'm not the type -- Blade, 14:29:40 08/12/03 Tue
        its a man thing -- sharon, 17:27:47 08/13/03 Wed
        How can i call her -- Blade, 23:41:36 08/13/03 Wed
        well.. -- spags, 05:20:21 08/14/03 Thu
        pride is in your head.... -- bren, 05:51:36 08/14/03 Thu
        ok, I'm gonna jump in here -- kyser, 14:40:42 08/14/03 Thu
        very good advice -- bren, 14:53:39 08/14/03 Thu
        Be spontaneous -- Blade, 02:19:40 08/15/03 Fri
        Blade, Blade -- kyser, 03:30:55 08/15/03 Fri
        I agree..... -- bren, 10:11:12 08/15/03 Fri
        yeah probably does -- Blade, 15:55:33 08/15/03 Fri
        on the other hand -- sharon, 21:17:08 08/16/03 Sat
        But thats it sharon -- Blade, 02:21:35 08/17/03 Sun
        you need to be honest with her -- bren, 10:23:53 08/17/03 Sun
        Agreed -- Blade, 03:13:20 08/18/03 Mon
        good luck honey! (NT) -- bren, 07:02:15 08/18/03 Mon
        yea -- kyser, 08:35:19 08/18/03 Mon
        well its done -- Blade, 14:51:11 08/18/03 Mon
        yes!!!!!!!!!! (NT) -- bren, 16:03:20 08/18/03 Mon
        wee hee -- sharon, 22:14:14 08/18/03 Mon
        rightio -- Blade, 01:37:18 08/19/03 Tue
        that's cool -- kyser, 02:30:11 08/19/03 Tue
        hey blade... -- spags, 07:50:36 08/19/03 Tue
        its wednesday -- sharon, 18:24:04 08/19/03 Tue
        that wasnt funny -- Blade, 01:54:32 08/20/03 Wed
        she wants too see you......... -- bren, 04:37:39 08/20/03 Wed
        Just got home than -- Blade, 15:24:37 08/20/03 Wed
        that is a great start........ -- bren, 16:23:08 08/20/03 Wed
        Aww Blade -- spags, 02:45:48 08/21/03 Thu
        wee hee -- sharon, 17:18:56 08/21/03 Thu
        SHARON!!! -- Spags, 00:50:36 08/22/03 Fri
        She isnt ugly -- Blade, 01:56:10 08/22/03 Fri
        ummm oooh ouch... -- spags, 05:18:09 08/22/03 Fri
        don't cancel........ -- bren, 14:48:39 08/22/03 Fri
        no they wernt -- Blade, 17:26:00 08/22/03 Fri
        hehehehe -- Sharon, 19:56:14 08/22/03 Fri
        whats the point? -- Blade, 03:20:51 08/23/03 Sat
        this is good........ -- bren, 08:42:40 08/23/03 Sat
        very cool -- sharon, 19:06:50 08/23/03 Sat
        lol -- Blade, 04:07:56 08/24/03 Sun
        there is a name for people like you............. -- bren, 07:29:22 08/24/03 Sun
        I dont get turned on -- Blade, 19:30:00 08/24/03 Sun
        but your not! -- bren, 10:20:07 08/25/03 Mon
        I dont fear death at all -- Blade, 15:42:26 08/25/03 Mon
        I agree -- bren, 17:22:01 08/25/03 Mon
        sorry to hear that -- Blade, 21:57:18 08/25/03 Mon
        do you guys ever think about.... -- kyser, 01:52:33 08/26/03 Tue
        yes all the time...... -- bren, 11:23:40 08/26/03 Tue
        Sounds like -- Chel, 15:02:00 08/26/03 Tue
        yeah sounds likes loads of fun -- Blade, 16:15:53 08/26/03 Tue
        I know what you mean Blade... -- Spags, 06:41:08 08/27/03 Wed
        i agree strong and fragile -- sharon, 18:30:34 08/27/03 Wed
        oh sharon -- kyser, 02:40:05 08/28/03 Thu
        my gosh... -- bren, 07:45:52 08/29/03 Fri
        im not a huge fate believer -- sharon, 18:45:25 09/03/03 Wed