| Subject: Im married to an addict |
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Sara
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Date Posted: 13:01:43 01/20/04 Tue
I sooo understand what you are saying, I myself have been married since Sep 2003. I knew that when I married him he had an addiction problem, he is an everything-aholic... but like your husbund pain killers seem to be the easiest for him to do and hide. When I confronted him, he lied, denied, ignored me... would accuse me of being the one who has a problem. We have been together for 2 years, married for 4 & 1/2 months and in the last year I had the same gut feeling that something was going on... Within the last week I found out that he has been stealing Morphine pills from my dad, caught red handed. Everything came into the light, sleepless nights, "I just dont feel well" "Im tired" " Im not 19 anymore"(reasons for not being able to perform in bed), my guess is that this has been going on for about 10 months... I'm not sure because of course he wont talk to me. The first thing that I thought was what am I doing wrong, I feel like I am A supportive wife, I work hard to keep our house up, I think that I give love, why is he self medicating when he is around me? I realize the stress of work and a new wife, he also took on my daughter, that is alot. But that was his choice, I too dont understand why he would jepordize our life togther.
He is sick, sounds soo rediculous, but I truly believe that something is missing in their heads, that make them do the things that they do. Unfortunately there isnt a medicine that they can take, sometimes I wonder how much counseling really helps, I can tell you that if you love this man like I love mine... it hurts like hell and the road never gets less bumpy, BUT if you love eachother there is a way to work things out... Im in the middle of this with you, and I sympathize. Dont ever blame yourself,dont let him blame you, dont blame him. If you make it through this, you are one of the strong ones, most give up, but I feel that you married eachother for a reason, just be there for him, demand honesty, you deserve it...Good luck!
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