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Date Posted: 2/09/07 4:48:11am
Author: Foxglove (last that i will say!)
Subject: Re: Vampire Connection..A Bit Mild Don't You Think??
In reply to: Yemanya 's message, "Re: Vampire Connection..A Bit Mild Don't You Think??" on 1/09/07 6:31:06pm

please explain to me then, why on Earth do you feel that i am wrong if we all have the RIGHT to an OPINION, when quite clearly mine is not accepted here. you tell me that i am this and that i am that, but yet you do nothing to back up your theories, nor do you even give valid reasons.



>You werent agreeing with me, sorry to tell you, you
>were saying "there is a time and place for
>everything"... this ofcourse is YOUR time and place,
>and YOUR time and place is probably not the same as
>someone elses time and place...

Ok, so as long as we all bow down to YOUR time and YOUR place, then we can do or think as we choose?? Ok, now i am understanding you!!

I think that the
>beauty of having a LIFE is living it the way you see
>fit, and i think having fun is very therapeutic!
>Actually, i will reword that, i have learnt in my
>studies, that it IS therapeautic.

So is sun bathing but too much can be dangerous!

>
>I ofcourse dont dress up and act like a "dimwit" all
>the time, but if i feel i need a little light in my
>day or some laughter, i may choose to, or do something
>else that may not be classed as "Proper" in your eyes,

Same here, but of course i am not allowed to agree with you am I?? shame on me!

>but frankly, what other people think of me is none of
>my business! Which means i wouldnt care if it "sat
>well" with other people, that is their own fears that
>they need to work through, not mine.

Actually it has nothing to do with fear. I am however happy that you dont care what people think of you, if you did care then you wouldnt feel the need reply to someone who called you a dimwit, nor would you need to give self affirming statements like "i dont care" ask any psychologist, thay will say that you do!

>
>
>>In the context of our community, let me give an
>>example; Ritual, there is alot to do about etiquette
>>during ritual, there is a time to act like a fairy and
>>there is time to act like a Priest/ess. At work is
>>another time, i wouldnt do what i do at home, when i
>>am at work! when i am with my neice and nephews, my
>>actions and Strong language are somewhat tame compared
>>to at a sabbat gathering during the feast.
>>
>I agree in ritual, there are certain times to dress
>for occasions and what not, but, once again, i say to
>you, some people are different. There are many
>different types of pagan beliefs,

True, but would you dress innapropriatley for a Sabbat? I am affraid to say, that even though i may consider myself "Godlike" i do not choose the times for Sabbats, so on this one it isnt "my time, nor my place".

and even many
>different "branches" of wicca....

Not as many as you think! Gardnerian, Alexandrian, Georgian...... thats all i can think of!



so what another
>person dresses up as for ritual, you may (and probably
>will) turn your nose up at... i bring you back to this
>word "CHOICE". Everyone has the right to one my
>sweet, perhaps you should just let people have their
>fun and live their own lives.... it would be alot
>easier for you!!!

But only if it agrees with what you think (apparently) as my opinions still havent been accepted, instead, i keep getting told i am wrong!

>
>>Do you need more examples?
>>>
>
>No thank you, i didnt need the first.

I think you did (my opinion)

>
>
>>to be honest, it was supposed to be an insult, silly
>>me for not giving much credibility to you. I stand
>>corrected.
>>
>Again, credibility is something i dont need from you
>because i have enough from people who actually know
>me.

See, you do care what people think of you; you just make sure you only here it from people who like you. (My Goddess, you are human)

I find the term dimwit to be the description of
>someone who loves life and will live it the way they
>choose to....

Actually, it means someone who is a bit DIM on WITS, otherwords cant think properly.

frankly i pity you if you see it as an
>insult.... infact, i pity you full stop.... i really
>do. :/

That hurts!

>
>
>>true, but you also got really excited about the way
>>everyone was staring at you and the boyfriend cause
>>you were all, like dressed up, as like Goths and, like
>>they were all in in suits ans stuff!
>
>
>Actually, we didnt originally do it for the shock
>factor... we did it because that is what we wanted to
>do.... it was a ball and that is how i dress up for a
>ball... i was simply highlighting the fact that people
>have different opinions of the right time and place
>for such clothes etc.... if you would like to get off
>your high horse now and read it close up...

i did read it and i quote "My boyfriend and i went to a uni ball last year and eventhough everyone else was dressed in suits and beautiful gowns, me and my boyfriend rocked up dressed as vampires (minus the teeth lol), we looked awesome and everyone was staring because we stood out!!! AHAHA" end quote

seems to me you were reveling in the fact that you stood out. (my opinion)


>
>
>
>>
>>And if that is the way you dress up ( for the WOW
>>factor) then i stand by what i have said.
>>
>Again, get off your soap box and read what i wrote...

See last comment!!

>
>
>
>>As i said, there is a time and place for everything.
>>if you still have issues with this concept, try going
>>to a funeral and make jokes about it, whilst dressed
>>like a elf!
>
>And as I said... the time and place you speak of is
>your opinion, and you are very much entitled to it...
>but i dont agree with you, and that is okay.

Ok, tell me when you do agree with it, so that i may express it..Sheesh, for someone who doesnt care about what i think, you seem to need to do a hell of alot of explaining (my opinion)

As for
>the funeral comment... i feel this is a little bit
>over the top,

Not really, this is just my way of being me, when it suits me..... ner!

but since we are on the subject, i dont
>see death as a negative horrible evil thing... as a
>witch and a pagan, i see it as a beautiful
>transition... a part of a cycle that we all are a part
>of. This is by no means a "bad" thing, because, once
>again "bad" just comes down to personal opinion... and
>though i may or may not make jokes at a funeral, if i
>chose to, this is my choice.

Am i allowed to agree here, or are you still feeling the need to be individual?



>
>
>>I have my Partner, my dog and my family, i also have
>>My circle , who honestly would be sitting there
>>pissing themselves at the idea that you think i am
>>straightlaced and down the line!!
>>
>I hope they are pissing themselves, it would seem that
>the people around you would need a good laugh without
>the fear of being shunned!!! Though i am sure that
>alot of laughing goes on whilst you are absent.... but
>this again is my opinion....

You know what, i hope there is alot of laughing when i am not around, i dont sit there and make jokes or dirty comments to only be laughed at once, i want them to keep laughing....OOH that was suppose to be an insult......

That hurt!

and is also the last
>insult i will throw as insulting is not really my
>style, but since you jumped on the bandwagon
>(apparently), i thought i may give it a go.... still
>not my style i'm afraid... i think i am above that.

i didnt jump on any bandwagon, i called you a dimwit and after reading and replying to this post, i resind my former apology. I dont care if you care what i say, nor do i care if you choose to disagree, but please dont sit there and tell me what i can and cannot believe whilst you are guilty of the same thing. I am the first to admit when i am a hypocrit but unfortunatley on this one i dont see myself as being any less guilty than you, or anyone else who expresses an opinion.

anyway, i have decided to end my conversation with you here, as i really cant be bothered I have said my piece and i hope you have said yours.

>
>Blessed be

Blessed be to you too

>
>Yem

Foxglove

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