Author:
albanz
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Date Posted: 13:32:35 03/20/03 Thu
Hi bro,
There is no need for you to be unhappy over what those Whagi girls do. I know in PNG women go for money, fame, sense of belonging, etc and true love in many circumstances not evident in those so called relationships and one night stands etc. For you, try your best, find a girl and live you life. Don't worry bout what they do coz it will not help you thinking hard about it anyway. If there is someone you like that is heading the Hagen way, then don't be so misserable over it. She'll soon realise that she was wrong if you are a real gentleman.
Never have this thought like what our fathers did by thinking that women where our possessions and they belonged to us for life and we do what we like. But now most of our girls have been to school and we are not the boss anymore. By this, I don't mean that women are free to do anything they like but must uphold our traditional beliefs to an extent that they feel they are getting the comfort and love they need from their partners and live happily.
With exposure to western lifestyle, we don't have that much control over what they would like to do with their life.
So brother, peace out and let that chose what she likes and make some decision for her own.
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