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Date Posted: 07:26:57 05/12/07 Sat
Author: john (tired)
Subject: Re: My GF is an addict
In reply to: Juka 's message, "My GF is an addict" on 00:18:02 04/07/07 Sat

hi Juka, john here. yeah, get tested, and try to help her. Ultimatums will not work, and realize that you cannot control her. all we have control over is our own actions, all else is illusory. Help her lovingly, through encouragement, etc. but don't over do it, don't push too hard as the usual result will be increased usage on her part. Say, "look I love you and want to help any way I can, so call me if you feel the need, to talk about whatever is on your mind or upsetting you(if that's the case), we can make it through this if we try together" sincerely, John, new member to forum

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