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Date Posted: 31/01/09 9:14:21am
Author: Eveleigh
Subject: curse
In reply to: enlightened 's message, "Re: Don't you imagine that Julado's partner influences her more than I do?" on 30/01/09 8:31:48pm

I wasn't fussed about his
>involvement until you said I was a curse, a comment to
>which I got offended

I made the mistake only of assuming you would understand what I meant when I used the word curse. And because you saw the word and went ape, you failed to see the rest of the sentence, which said in essence:

"If the JA think that they can control you, I think they may realise that rather than being a blessing, your membership is a curse". You and I were actually in a friendly exchange at the time. You are intelligent so I thought you would get it. But you are also on an emotional rollercoaster and I hadn't taken that into account.

What you missed, and will undoubtedly continue to miss....is that I was complimenting you on not being the sort of person they could control. What I meant by "curse" was that, unlike other women in the JA who submit to men, you - as a lifelong and firey feminist - would not be silenced; you would speak your mind and not be bullied.

We have all witnessed your temper on SF and SZ....and look forward to the day when your honeymoon period in the JA is over. If you are not eventually outraged by the fact that the JA approve of beating children and would do it more if they legally could; if you are not outraged by women being submissive, or the fact that they can if they wish ban you from sleeping with MV or even from continuing to see him, etc, then you are not half the woman we all think you are.

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  • "They don't rule me" -- Eveleigh, 31/01/09 9:33:52am
  • Re: "They don't rule me" -- enlightened, 31/01/09 11:44:58am
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