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>> >>>I feel a bit horrible doing this, it seems like >>>backbiting, naming names I mean. I don't mean to be >>>horrible. But these people ought to realise what >>>they've done. I'm doing them a favour by spilling the >>>beans, aren't I? It's better out in the open, isn't >>it? >> >>Yes, I wonder what others here feel about naming >names? >> >>I did wonder of I was out of order asking you to name >>them, but the thing they did was really horrible. I >>don't think you are doing THEM any favours by >>revealing the truth, but I do think that there is a >>sense in which the accusation becomes more concrete >>when the real people are called to account. >> >>I am desperately disappointed to learn that Ian Jolley >>(not a virtue name, incidentally) had a part in this. >>I always loved him and thought he was quite a special >>guy. I saw him again last year and it was a genuinely >>happy reunion. I'd like it if he is reading this (or >>if any other member reads it and tells him about it) >>and he came and gave his account and, if possible, >>apologised on here. >> >>Ray Gunn? >> >>(not a joke, that was one guy's name) > >Hi Barbara and Pete, >Ray and Ruth Gunn are living in Belfast now so I don't >often see them, similarly with Ian Jolley who's in >Coventry/Stockton. Mick Temp didn't remember the water >throwing incident (he's always been Cornerstone) and >Martin, the deceased leader, was with the Stoke >household. So I approached Mhairi to see if she >remembered anything... > > She was most amused to be reminded of her soaking as >she believes she had it coming. Eaddy, the sister who >threw the water, had told her to stop making snyde >comments and pouring cold water on everything or she'd >pour cold water on her. The rest is already >publicised. The two of them laughed about it together >when I spoke to them last night and are bewildered at >the notion that elders were or should have been >involved. > > Credit to you Pete for thinking to question the >alleged link between vulnerable women and water >throwing. There is none. This was a dispute between >two friends. > > As to how this has affected you Barbara, since you >have taken offence on her behalf please get in touch >with Mhairi (at Cornerstone) if you need to be >reassured about the dynamics of the situation. She'd >be pleased to hear from you. > >Bless you, >Dave Ardent
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