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> >my point was you dont allow yourself to get past it, >it was present in much of your writings. this is my >perspective based on what i read , thats all. > >I could see how your past experiences dictate your >future dealings with people. Not giving them (new >people) a chance that they might honestly want to >help, because of all the previous ones before that >didnt. Your words were obvious that no one stood a >chance of helping you because of past treatment. You >rebuffed all people, biasing your treatment of them >based on how others before them treated you, instead >of getting to know them for who they are instead of >thinking they were the same as persons in your >past.... > >What i wrote is how you made me feel. I dont know if >that was your intention or not and perhaps i percieved >it wrong but thats what i was left with. Sue gives me >the feeling (from her writings) that she has to endure >alot of pain and torment from autism, but she tries to >get past it, tries to control it so it doesnt control >her...just as i can see my son dealing with the same >kind of pain. And thats hard to get past. It is not >wallowing it it, its living it but trying to make the >best of it, to do what one can to get better >physcially and emotionally. > >you gave me the opposite feeling, that your just fine >with autism its everyone else causing you the pain, >you dont reflect positive expereinces to me....i got >very few positives at all from reading what you >wrote.... and admittedly you have been thru some >horrible experiences at the hands of uncaring people, >but i have to wonder how many caring people were truly >doing the best they could to help you and you couldnt >see it or allow it so they gave up trying...and that >was my point. > >your "message" seemed to be that people arent to be >trusted, you seem to convey that you cant trust >anyone and never will so there is no sense trying, >even treating them badly before they do it to you >attitude... you dont seem to give people a chance and >that is basing future on past and living in it... > > >Cheryl
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