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Date Posted: Sun, May 08, 08:44:06am
Author: cheryl
Subject: 5 years too late...
In reply to: RD 's message, "Retiring" on Fri, May 06, 09:10:06pm

Interesting you post this here ....

I cannot say I'm sorry your leaving, you have helped to make the last 5 years of my life stressful and filled with pain...

How different it all could have been had you simply listened....and wanted to help a child who needed help, you had the power to help him and yet you chose to do nothing without a battle.

In the beginning when I told you the first sped teacher was unable to do her job, if only you had listened....

How different it could a been ....

Instead you chose not to, you chose not to provide Daniel with what he needed, what I knew he needed ....
and I had to endure 6 months of living hell trying to ensure he got what he needed and deserved....

a mothers worst nightmare excluding death of the child.

not only do I have to suffer the pain that comes with a child that is disabled but I've had to endure the pain that comes from fighting people for his birthright education ...

you did that.

and not just that one time....

so many times over the years you chose not to listen , chose not to act in his best interest... chose to believe those that couldn't or didn't want to do their jobs, chose to make a mother feel pain of the fight for her child's future.

These past 2 years were again a nightmare, once again you chose not to listen, to make a mother fight, to believe those that would lie, you let my son suffer and once again my son proved the incompetence and laziness of those entrusted to teach him. Proved again the truth I spoke to you ...proved again he is capable of learning with those that work hard to ensure he does....

You say you learned about autism, and I do believe you did .....you had to... because I was relentless in my pursuit to teach you how to provide my son appropriate education.....

but I hope more that you learned about truth and honesty and how important they are ... and the worth of providing a child with the education he needs to make progress.

So, not sorry to see you go at all ....

I look at you now and know the hurt you have caused me, not only physically but financially, emotionally.... and most of all you hurt my child, the boy who needed your help.

you say you enjoyed the time you had with him, and as his mom I do know what joy he brings, so yes I do believe that.... however I do wonder what kind of person can look into his eyes, knowing what they (you) have done to him , to his mother, to his family and not feel great shame.

not sorry to see you go at all ....

Cheryl

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