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>i wasnt trying to start an argument or making light of >what you feel, i am sorry if that is what you >think...i was simply trying to give you the idea that >perhaps your own attitude, that no one could possibly >feel what you do, could be debateable, and therefore >comforting to know that not everyone is insensitve to >those feelings.....many people have the ability to >empathize to a depth of total understanding, they can >feel your pain, they can perfectly visualize things >most cant and in the visualization create actual >sensation....its all brain related. > >just as its been proven that emotional abuse(merely >words) causes the same brain reaction/result as >physical abuse, so too can images creat a depth of >"knowing" in some that have that ability... > >And im sorry you found my comment patronizing, that >wasnt my intent at all. I was striving to help you >know that while you will have new understanding as to >the "why" and perhaps solutions to help alleviate >discomforts or overcome difficulties, the who has been >with you for your entire life...similar to some >parents who think their child has changed from the >child they loved before a dx, because of a dx...the >way to help and understand changes, the unique person >does not. > >When the day comes that people believe me that i know >my son, i will let you know, hasnt happened yet... > >Cheryl
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