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not sure where to go from here...

Author:
Carolyne

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Date Posted: 22:18:33 04/09/09 Thu

I got pregnant in late August of 2008. The father was my on again off again boyfriend. I was very reluctant to begin any kind of physical relationship with him, but he kept pushing it and sadly I gave in. After that he stopped talking to me completely, wouldn't return messages nothing. It's weird because I felt that part of me knew that I was pregnant. I took a test and it was positive. I was eighteen at the time and a student from a very conservative family. My father once told me that if I ever got pregnant he would kick me out. I always wanted a baby, and a few of my friends had even gotten pregnant and decided to keep it. I didn't feel like I could talk to anyone about my pregnancy though. When I finally got a chance to tell the father he told me that he didn't believe me and if I was telling the truth I couldn't keep it. I felt as if I didn't have a choice, nor did I really make one, I just made the appointment anyways. Afterward I felt so alone. I would have been due in May. Since then I still haven't told anyone about my abortion, this is the first time I have said anything. I still feel like I made a selfish mistake and am having a really hard time adjusting. If anyone has any advice or can identify please let me know.

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Re: not sure where to go from here...

Author:
Diane Cheryl
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Date Posted: 23:51:17 04/10/09 Fri

Hi Carolyne,

I'm so glad you posted. I hope you will know that you are not alone. I have not experienced what you have but have several close friends who have. I offer free post abortion healing information mailed to you if you like. If you can't have it sent to your home (because of your dad) do you have any other place I could mail a packet to? Let me know. If not, check the below post with that helpful website on there.
Go there and print out the information and study it. You may email me at CHERYL51@aol.com and we can talk more. I hope others will also respond on here as well.

Diane Cheryl