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Subject: can anyone help me?


Author:
Chloe
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Date Posted: 11:59:48 05/18/06 Thu
 im 14 and had my abortion on 15th may, im devestated. i was r**** and sorry but i cant even say the stupid word for it. i told my parents that i had a boyfriend and thats how i got pregnant because i just couldnt bring myself to tell them the real reason, now my mum says she is ashamed of me, my dad dosent talk to me, i dont know what to do. i feel so guilty for having the abortion but they made me they didnt even give me a choice i feel such a failure for not being stronger. can anyone help me? thankyou
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Author:
Mary Binder
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Date Posted: 23:28:26 05/18/06 Thu
Chloe,

I want to help you so can you please email me so we can talk privately. There is hope,healing and love for you. It will be a process. I can also put you in touch with other women that have been through the same experiences. My email address is mjschoettle@aol.com

Mary

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Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 15:44:01 05/22/06 Mon
Dear Chloe,

You refer to your Mother as "Mum" - so I am thinking you may bein the UK - if you're in the US, I encourage you to look up a Rape Crisis Center - hopefully the UK has a counterpart for that if you're there. Look in the phone book or do a web search for one. It's really important for you to find someone to trust and talk to about what you have been through. It's really encouraging to me that you posted here - it means that you are seeking some help that you need. Here's a site for rape centers - but they are in the US:

http://www.rainn.org/counseling-centers/index.html

Here are some other helpful websites you can visit:

http://www.healinghearts.org/index.php

http://www.redeemedforlife.com/

http://www.safehavenministries.com/

I am so sorry that at such a tender age you are dealing with such a mature issue. I hope you will find the courage to talk to your Mom about the truth of what happened to you. She would want to know and it's important she understand how hurt you really are. I'm sure it's not been easy for her and your Dad either - as a parent I know how much I love my children and how hard it would be for me to see them going through the pain you're going through.

You can email me if you would like - please at least post again and let us know how you are doing.

Hugs, Kris
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