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Subject: Re: Will the pain ever stop


Author:
Erika
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Date Posted: 01:19:14 07/16/05 Sat
In reply to: Laura 's message, "Will the pain ever stop" on 01:00:42 06/17/05 Fri

thats horrible, I feel so bad for you, I dont want to even begin to imagine how that would have felt, even thinking of it breaks my heart. It's obvious you need help, you know deep down you do, but i think above everything i dont think you should be trying for another baby, just not yet, as it would seem to me that it would be a replacement for the one you tragically lost.
I seriously hope that you find so peace in your life

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[> Subject: Re: Will the pain ever stop


Author:
Lacie
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Date Posted: 10:59:45 02/21/06 Tue

Oh, my heart breaks for you! That is one of the worst stories I've ever read...having had an abortion myself, i know all too well those feelings that you are having. I have finally come to terms with what happened to me. I beleive that bad things happen to us for a reason; to either teach us or teach others. Through my experience I found God again. I turned to him and that has made me feel so much better, everyday! I know God has forgiven me, and loves all of us so very much. He knows life's challenges are very hard for us, and is with us every step of the day. Just trust in His light to guid you, and you will never take a misstep.
I know you feel horrible. I have had days that are so devastating...but I'm over it now. I have been forgiven, and that is done. Please do not feel that you are being punished by God. A loving God would never give you your 'just desserts'. I used to feel this way too, until I had my beautiful little girl. You will have another when the time is right. Please just try to be patient and know that God is with you. Take this time to grieve for your baby and yourself. Know that your angel is lying in Jesus' arms, and she is feeling the most unspeakable bliss...I know this more than I know anything. Life is just a facade, but eternity is real and we'll all meet up in the end. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and humble. This experience has given you many things. Use those to help people. Many hugs



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