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Subject: Scared


Author:
jen
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Date Posted: 06:22:56 08/13/05 Sat

I am hoping that perhaps just typing this will help me a little. I feel scared tonight. I had an abortion. Afterwards, I wanted to forget everything that happened. I no longer even remember if it has been one or two years now. It could have been three for all I remember. I have stayed with the man I was with when I got pregnant. We love each other very much, and I can not picture my life without him. Yet, every time I feel even the slightest bit nauseous, I fall apart. Tonight is one of those nights. It's 4 in the morning and I have to go to work three hours. Sometimes I feel as if I just can't take these feelings anymore. I swear to myself that the next day I will break up with the man whom I have loved for the past 5 years. Then I see him and I pretend that everything is OK. I can't get pregnant again and have another abortion. It would kill me. Tonight I just keep screaming in my head for help, and it seems as if no one of importance in my life will hear me. But tommorow will come soon and I will call off work and spend the day being miserable. After that, life will be back to the normal routine. Until the next time I feel sick...It seems a never ending cycle.

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[> Subject: Re: Scared


Author:
Diane Cheryl
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Date Posted: 00:14:14 08/14/05 Sun

Hello Jen.. Please email me. I would love to talk to you more and see what I can do to help out. So write soon.
Diane Cheryl
DCHERYL51@yahoo.com


[> Subject: Re: Scared


Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 08:59:20 08/14/05 Sun

http://www.safehavenministries.com/

Dear Jen,

Please visit the above site and take a look around there. There are so many women that are in the same spot you're in.

I would also like to encourage you to look up a center here in your area:

http://www.pregnancycenters.org/advantage.asp

Many of these centers provide free post-abortion counseling and I think you would benefit from such a program.

I am so sorry you're going through so much - please post again and let us know how you're doing.

Hugs,
Kris

[> Subject: Re: Scared


Author:
julie
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Date Posted: 18:38:32 11/22/05 Tue

I hear you. I and my hubby are involved in our careers and thought no time for kids. So two months ago I had a medical abortion. Told myself early on, just cells that sort of thing. Just after I was very relieved. Now the implications have hit me and no it wasnt right for me. By the way here in Canada its legal and free. So easy and yes I was treated well. But now I know it wasnt right. Not deeply depressed but it does bother me. So I guess we just make our peace the best we can and try to do better from now on


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