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Subject: Re: my girlfriend had an abortion

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Date Posted: 19:17:30 01/06/06 Fri
In reply to: Kris 's message, "Re: my girlfriend had an abortion" on 16:02:02 12/18/05 Sun

first of all the number one thing you did wrong, is have sex in the first place. You could have showed her your love by not having a sexual relationship in the first place. After all you knew she already had a child and you put you and her at a risk that you could have prevented.
All that being aside, have you ever talked to her and ask her why, how she is feeling? Maybe she felt she couldn't handle another child.. and then thinking about one by herself again. Yes you said you would be there and wanted to marry her, but maybe the other guy said the same. When a women decides to have an abortion, it isn't a easy decision. She is going through emotional things and sometimes feels the the only way out. Which really is the just the beginning of a hardship.
There isnt' a whole lot now you can do, besides get the help you need to heal. Also be there for her, after you have recieved the help. she will need support and help herself when that time comes.. and practice abstinance.. please do learn by your mistakes.


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