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Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Liz [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:42:37 07/27/12 Fri In reply to: Ben 's message, "Dirty briefs" on 18:06:27 07/24/12 Tue i have a cousin who is 15 yrs old.his mother still now bathing how. though she is bathing him inside the bathroom with closed doors, we can hear their conversation inside , as she orders him to remove the underwear..spread yr legs. sit down, bent donw. let me clean your willy ...just pull the skin etc. etc. is quite unusual for those hear from outside.it looks as if the boy has no objectioin in doing so. Moreover, sometimes she checked his wiping after N2! He is big boy and I can't imagine how his mother can check and perhaps wipe his butt. I ask my mom about it she smiling and tells something honey he is boy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:29:46 07/30/12 Mon >i have a cousin who is 15 yrs old.his mother still now >bathing how. though she is bathing him inside the >bathroom with closed doors, we can hear their >conversation inside , as she orders him to remove the >underwear..spread yr legs. sit down, bent donw. let me >clean your willy ...just pull the skin etc. etc. is >quite unusual for those hear from outside.it looks as >if the boy has no objectioin in doing so. Moreover, >sometimes she checked his wiping after N2! He is big >boy and I can't imagine how his mother can check and >perhaps wipe his butt. I ask my mom about it she >smiling and tells something honey he is boy Lizzy, your mother and aunt are right. You will understand it completely when will have own sons. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Liz to April [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:47:21 10/11/12 Thu It isn't important. Each boy, if he is 15, ought to can wash and wipe himself. I don't believe it's impossible! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Liz [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:51:34 10/13/12 Sat > >It isn't important. Each boy, if he is 15, ought to >can wash and wipe himself. I don't believe it's >impossible! Lizzy, they can but dont't want! They are boys... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Liz [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:55:57 10/14/12 Sun >> >>It isn't important. Each boy, if he is 15, ought to >>can wash and wipe himself. I don't believe it's >>impossible! > >Lizzy, they can but dont't want! They are boys... Mrs. April, I spoke with my aunt about her opinion and she told ur right. Yes, she herself wipes Tommy sometimes when he doesn't do it well himself. She scolded Tommy and promissed to him next time, if he would be dirty, wipe him in my watching. I wasn't sure that I want to see it but aunt told it would be useful for me as future mother. Tommy's face was bright red and my mom told he is good stimul wash and wipe himself well enough. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Liz [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:02:01 10/16/12 Tue >>Mrs. April, I spoke with my aunt about her opinion and >she told ur right. Yes, she herself wipes Tommy >sometimes when he doesn't do it well himself. She >scolded Tommy and promissed to him next time, if he >would be dirty, wipe him in my watching. I wasn't sure >that I want to see it but aunt told it would be useful >for me as future mother. Tommy's face was bright red >and my mom told he is good stimul wash and wipe >himself well enough. Lizzy, your aunt has good idea. I see your families are very close and it perhaps will be useful for Tommy and you indeed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Liz [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:44:47 11/05/12 Mon Mrs. April, my aunt have done it today. It wasn't big fun for me and - without doubt - for Tommy. However, I hope he will be more carefull about his cleanliness. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Mark (amused) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:02:37 02/08/13 Fri >> >>It isn't important. Each boy, if he is 15, ought to >>can wash and wipe himself. I don't believe it's >>impossible! > >Lizzy, they can but dont't want! They are boys... You lady are a whacked control freak, they can't because they are boys? I was a boy and i knew how to wipe my ass, if i were your husband i would strip you naked and blister your ass in front of your children, why you might ask, because you need it! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:04:36 02/08/13 Fri ...You lady are a whacked control freak, they can't because they are boys? I was a boy and i knew how to wipe my ass... Good for you and your mother. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:23:26 02/08/13 Fri >...You lady are a whacked control freak, they can't >because they are boys? I was a boy and i knew how to >wipe my ass... > >Good for you and your mother. So because they are boys' they don't want to wipe there asses thoroughly? Come here i think you need checked! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:45:01 02/08/13 Fri >>...You lady are a whacked control freak, they can't >>because they are boys? I was a boy and i knew how to >>wipe my ass... >> >>Good for you and your mother. > So because they are boys' they don't want to wipe >there asses thoroughly? Come here i think you need >checked! What is incomprehensible for you? Two lads consider themselves too macho for maintenance of hygiene. Who besides mother ought to control them? If they violate main family rules, I'm spanking their behinds.If they have dirty briefs and, consequently, dirty bottoms, I check their wiping. It's usual mother's duty. Why not? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:32:05 02/09/13 Sat >>>...You lady are a whacked control freak, they can't >>>because they are boys? I was a boy and i knew how to >>>wipe my ass... >>> >>>Good for you and your mother. >> So because they are boys' they don't want to wipe >>there asses thoroughly? Come here i think you need >>checked! > > What is incomprehensible for you? Two lads consider >themselves too macho for maintenance of hygiene. Who >besides mother ought to control them? If they violate >main family rules, I'm spanking their behinds.If they >have dirty briefs and, consequently, dirty bottoms, I >check their wiping. It's usual mother's duty. Why not? Your attitude of boys, Lizzy you will understand it when you have your own boys, that was one of your posts. Who checks your ass April, or were you above that as a teen and even now? Where if i might ask are you from also April? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:01:13 02/11/13 Mon ...Who checks your ass April, or were you above that as a teen and even now?... Mark, we all were children and all were checked in childhood. My mother checked my "ass" till 6-7 and bathed me until 11-12. I had no problems with dirty panties in my teen. Girls aren't boys, really, Mark? How was with you, if it so sensitive for you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Melanie for April and Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:23:35 02/12/13 Tue Having had a houseful of boys...the real reason is because boys are more apt to try and "hold it in" than girls because 1) they don't want to use the toilets at schools 2) they'd rather spend time playing basketball/baseball/war instead of wasting time pooping 3) or they can't tear themselves away from the TV, computer, nintendo etc. Boys will only go to the bathroom when there isn't anything on TV to watch or they get a stomach ache, whatever comes first. Of course, they can't really hold it in, since a person can only hold it back so far...hence the skid marks. Girls on the other hand practically live in the bathroom already so this isn't an issue for them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:52:33 02/14/13 Thu >Having had a houseful of boys...the real reason is >because boys are more apt to try and "hold it in" than >girls because 1) they don't want to use the toilets at >schools 2) they'd rather spend time playing >basketball/baseball/war instead of wasting time >pooping 3) or they can't tear themselves away from the >TV, computer, nintendo etc. > >Boys will only go to the bathroom when there isn't >anything on TV to watch or they get a stomach ache, >whatever comes first. Of course, they can't really >hold it in, since a person can only hold it back so >far...hence the skid marks. > >Girls on the other hand practically live in the >bathroom already so this isn't an issue for them. My problem with you girls really is not personal, but you classify boys in general, not all boys have problems wiping there asses. You have had how many kids and you act is if you speak for all parents. To be checking boys into there teens is ridiculous, would it be comprehensible if fathers were checking there duaghters, the double standard is bewildering? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:04:04 02/16/13 Sat Dear Mark, I'l try answer on your perplexed questions. "My problem with you girls really is not personal, but you classify boys in general, not all boys have problems wiping there asses." - I agree, perhaps, "not all boys have problems wiping there asses", but both my lads have. They both don't consider it such important and don't understand (or don't want understand!) why mother is concerned cleanliness of their behinds. They are "macho" and, perhaps, for their "ego" too clean bottom is sign of childish. However, I consider "childish" is bad wiped bottom. I'l stop to check them when their briefs will be clean enough and their bottoms will be clean enough too. I hope, this time will be soon. "You have had how many kids and you act is if you speak for all parents." - some of my friends have the same problems with their teens. Boys only. We have different opinions about reasons of this events, but most part of us agree that boys in teens have to keep hygiene. If they don't understand it themselves, parents ought to help them despite of their age. I'm mother and my boys have no to have dirty behinds! "To be checking boys into there teens is ridiculous, would it be .e if fathers were checking there duaghters, the double standard is bewildering?" - Mark, I ought to disappoint you. I don't believe in double standard and consider both parents have equal rights about their children despite of their gender. Nevertheless, children' care usually is mother's duty. It's so in our world. However, if father is raising daughter alone, why not? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Patricia [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:40:37 02/16/13 Sat As a mother of a boy I think that the age of stop bathing and checking him is about 13 – 14 yo. I don`t mind however that she ought to stop watch over her son`s health and physical development. Children start puberty at age of 11 – 12 ears. At that age they are kids yet and are quite immature not only in my opinion, but according the moral norms and laws in most of societies. Quite a lot of the children are rather bashful after reach puberty that it is most likely because of inconvenience or shame to keep silent or even to conceal any symptoms of eventual aberration of normal development. Therefore I think that it`s exceptional important mother to continue to monitor her offspring`s physical development and cleanliness till his reach maturity, when he `ll be able to bear his own responsibility for his health. A mother who keep an eye on her child`s development even after reach puberty unerring will notice every sign of abnormality in embryo. The medical office policy in most societies requires a parent or guardian to be present in exam room during the exam. That afford a quite legitimate opportunity and acceptable excuse to mother to witness the examination and to become acquaint about the stage of development of her son and possibility to update her impression about that sensitive matter, especially after stop bathe him after reach kind age. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:01:47 02/16/13 Sat >Dear Mark, I'l try answer on your perplexed questions. > >"My problem with you girls really is not personal, but >you classify boys in general, not all boys have >problems wiping there asses." - I agree, perhaps, >"not all boys have problems wiping there asses", but >both my lads have. They both don't consider it such >important and don't understand (or don't want >understand!) why mother is concerned cleanliness of >their behinds. They are "macho" and, perhaps, for >their "ego" too clean bottom is sign of childish. >However, I consider "childish" is bad wiped bottom. >I'l stop to check them when their briefs will be clean >enough and their bottoms will be clean enough too. I >hope, this time will be soon. > >"You have had how many kids and you act is if you >speak for all parents." - some of my friends have the >same problems with their teens. Boys only. We have >different opinions about reasons of this events, but >most part of us agree that boys in teens have to keep >hygiene. If they don't understand it themselves, >parents ought to help them despite of their age. I'm >mother and my boys have no to have dirty behinds! > > "To be checking boys into there teens is ridiculous, >would it be .e if fathers were checking there >duaghters, the double standard is bewildering?" - >Mark, I ought to disappoint you. I don't believe in >double standard and consider both parents have equal >rights about their children despite of their gender. >Nevertheless, children' care usually is mother's duty. >It's so in our world. However, if father is raising >daughter alone, why not? I understand where your coming from April what country are you in and how old are you if i may ask? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: April to Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:37:25 02/16/13 Sat > I understand where your coming from April what >country are you in and how old are you if i may ask? Is it important? I don't think so. We are discussing about problem which exists in many families as I know not about my personal life. Mark, we have different opinions about it. It happens. Each family is unique. I told here about my methods and have read about methods in other families. Each family has own problems and parents (in my case I only) ought to make decision. I'm responsible for my kids in front God and society and I try to do it right. I do all what I can for them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Dirty briefs Author: to Liz [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:27:37 02/05/13 Tue How she did it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]