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Date Posted: 05:26:10 06/15/12 Fri
Author: MaryC in KY
Subject: JudyL said everything I was going to say.... hide her posts and find someone to talk to. I know I harp on this but call your local Hospice center, they offer grief counseling, sometimes it's free or needs-based fee, they also have support groups where you can talk to others in similar situations. You could also contact Compassionate Friends, they are primarily for bereaved parents but in larger cities they have Sibling groups and that would be perfect for you. Hugs to you and your younger brother.....
In reply to: JudyL 's message, "I'm so sorry for your loss; brothers are special and grieving for him must leave a huge hole in your heart. Maybe consider grief counseling to help deal with your feelings and help you to let go the unfairness of it all. Since you live in a different town, maybe you could find one of the churches that has free grief counseling, or speak to someone privately. It must be very difficult to absorb and I know what you mean about it being a slap in the face. Maybe she's afraid of being alone with two young daughters to raise and is rushing things. Don't agonize over whether she was unfaithful or not -- you can't know that for sure and it's in the past. I hope you find peace and comfort. And try to stay off of Facebook for a while, or "unfriend" her or block her posts if they're a source of anger and frustration for you. You're in my prayers." on 04:12:27 06/15/12 Fri


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