| Subject: Hi DM's! I'm hoping someone from the Chicago area can recommend a store where I can buy stretch elastic so I can make DD's prom garter. I'm going to Action Fabrics |
Author: Thanks for any help! [Edit]
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Date Posted: Monday, May 11, 07:20:53pm
tomorrow, but in case they don't have the right color we're looking for, I need a backup plan. I seem to remember a place downtown (west loop) that was almost all trims (it was years ago though). Found the perfect garter and the website discontinued it!
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- It's STRETCH SEQUIN we're looking for!!! (NT) -- how did that word get left out!!!??? LOL, Monday, May 11, 07:22:45pm
- Joanns carries stretch sequins elastic. The west loop store you are thinking of is Fishman's. There is also Vogue in Evanston. (NT) -- cc, Monday, May 11, 07:47:28pm
- What is a prom garter? (NT) -- ., Monday, May 11, 07:50:21pm
- Similar to bride's garter...goes around leg, matches the color of the prom dress. Given to their dates who hang them from their car mirrors (lol). (NT) -- hth, Monday, May 11, 08:14:54pm
- are you serious???? (NT) -- none, Tuesday, May 12, 06:48:21am
- Please tell me the guy doesn't remove with his teeth, etc. the way they do at weddings. (NT) -- new to me, Tuesday, May 12, 07:49:59am
- sorry but this sounds tasteless (NT) -- none, Tuesday, May 12, 08:00:19am
- Its a big thing here in So cal proms too had to pay $25 for matching garter (NT) -- not tacky, Tuesday, May 12, 10:18:33am
- Well, I guess I'm now officially an old fart as I think this is awful (NT) -- But what do I know, Tuesday, May 12, 10:51:00am
- I graduated in 1980 and we had garters, apparetnly hasn't died yet (NT) -- but won't suggest to my dd, Tuesday, May 12, 02:43:57pm
- Graduated in the MWin '82 and we had them for prom. I just spent saturday night making prom garters for my daughter and friends...... -- old fart, Tuesday, May 12, 02:53:17pm
- Must be a regional phenomenon -- we don't have this custom in New England. -- Older mom, Tuesday, May 12, 03:24:40pm
- OMG! It is 2009. What kind of message does this send to young women? That a boy "owns" a piece of them? That they have been symbolically "deflowered?" I would think deeply about where this tradition came from and what it represents. Lots of traditions have been dropped and for good reason (chastity belt anyone?) -- shocked and sad, Tuesday, May 12, 04:28:48pm
- Were chastity belts ever for real? Beyond a very few crazies? Also, I think the tradition *could* go promisciuos skanky ways, but teens don't need help with that if they so desire. (NT) -- no worse than daddy giving away the bride..., Tuesday, May 12, 06:17:55pm
- So, to add fuel to the fire, the boys give the girls their ties and the girls give personalized garters (baseball/little charms/school colors). So, what could the symbolism be of giving a girl a man's tie? (NT) -- Flame away ladies!, Wednesday, May 13, 06:10:10am
- I am so sorry to have offended nearly everyone who posted. Apparently I am raising a whore-ish sexually promiscious piece of male property instead of a fresh-faced 17 year old who was really excited to be attending the big event in our school. (NT) -- ....never mind., Tuesday, May 12, 05:17:28pm
- Eh, people freak about everything. They're entitled to their opinions, and you are entitiled to yours. Don't worry about it. Hope you found the trim you were looking for! If not, try the internet, there are a number of places that sell awesome sequin trims (NT) -- good luck, Tuesday, May 12, 07:14:47pm
- More likely you are raising a daughter in a very traditional social sphere where this custom reflects the societal norms -- many of the responders are probably from more progressive, liberal communities and are horrified by this anachronism. The United States is not as culturally unified as you might think! (NT) -- Kathleen, Tuesday, May 12, 08:41:00pm
- not so, I am extremely conservative which is why I think having your garter hanging around some guys rear view mirror is less than tasteful and degrading. (NT) -- none, Tuesday, May 12, 09:50:12pm
- Yeah, I completely get the conservative thing. And no, the boys don't take it off with their teeth, and the girls barely wear it for a picture. It becomes a souvenir of the prom, really. Nothing more. (NT) -- Suburban Chicago mom, Wednesday, May 13, 06:15:44am
- Glad to hear that. As someone else said, it must be a regional thing. I'm relieved to find that it's not quite as sex-linked (which, let's face it, the bridal garter is) as it appeared as first. (NT) -- enjoy your prom, kids!, Wednesday, May 13, 08:22:56am
- At the HS my daughters attended, prom souvenirs were imprinted mugs and picture frames, not undies! (NT) -- anonamom, Thursday, May 14, 09:06:28am
- There is nothing sordid about the custom. It is just a thing; don't let the people who haven't ever heard of this get you down. (NT) -- hope she has fun, Tuesday, May 12, 10:58:40pm
- NJ here, dd going to prom and we never heard of it. Grew up in Long Island...never heard of it either. (NT) -- that's a new one, Tuesday, May 12, 09:43:06pm
- I sell sequin headbands. It could work. Lots of colors. (NT) -- Rosemarie (Kelso Custom Covers), Wednesday, May 13, 10:23:07pm
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