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] Date Posted:23:42:12 08/11/07 Sat In reply to:
's message, "how to get him back" on 15:20:05 02/16/04 Mon
ok so i started dating this guy that i have known for a while everything was going well and he was so cute. on our first date we had a great time amd when he went to drop me off at my car he tried to kiss me but i turned my head (playing hard to get) on the seacond date same thing but on the third we kissed and it was magic. have dated lots of other guys some more serious than others but never have i felt what i felt when i was with him.
n e waz on our one month we went night swimming at the local beach and then went back to his house for some hot tub time. while we were siting there he told me that he had to ask me an uncomfortable question. i braced myself and said ok. he asked me that if we were ever to break up did i think that we could still be friends. i told him that it depended on the terms of the breakup then when i asked hm what made him ask that he said that he had just been thinking about things.
long story short he ended up breaking up with me bout 3 weeks later and gave me a lst of excuses.
1. it was just a summer thing
2. he needed to focus on school his emt and firefighting classes
3. he was scared because he thought that this was a serious relationship and he wasnt ready to settle down,and he wanted to see what else was out there. (even though no one said it was serious or asked him to settle down)
4. he told me that his heart saw me as a friend but that his brain wanted it to be more (whatever that means)
then after all of this he told me that i was one of the best people he had ever met and that he would defintly want to get back with me in the future.
as if that wasnt enough, 4 days after the breakup e came to my house at about 1 in the morning. at first we were just talking then it went to him kissing my neck and then us makng out with some roaming hands. i let him do this for a few minutes because i still love him but then i relized that he was not doing it for the same reason i was so i pushed him away and told him to stop messing with my head. he stoped for a while and then tryed again so i told him to leave. about two days after that i called him and told him to meet me at my house after work. at first we were just talking and then we went in my room and started to watch tv then he kissed me again. one thing lead to aother and we found ourselves closer than we ha ever been to having sex. i am a virgin and plan to remain that way until marrage but for some reason i was wlling to give it up until right before the moment that ould have changed it all. i told him to stop and that i couldnt do it like that. so he left again. WHAT DO I DO? i love this guy but he just wants to be friends. my problem is that i dont think i can be just a friend! how do i get hm back?
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