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>ok so i started dating this guy that i have known for >a while everything was going well and he was so cute. >on our first date we had a great time amd when he went >to drop me off at my car he tried to kiss me but i >turned my head (playing hard to get) on the seacond >date same thing but on the third we kissed and it was >magic. have dated lots of other guys some more >serious than others but never have i felt what i felt >when i was with him. >n e waz on our one month we went night swimming at the >local beach and then went back to his house for some >hot tub time. while we were siting there he told me >that he had to ask me an uncomfortable question. i >braced myself and said ok. he asked me that if we >were ever to break up did i think that we could still >be friends. i told him that it depended on the terms >of the breakup then when i asked hm what made him ask >that he said that he had just been thinking about >things. >long story short he ended up breaking up with me bout >3 weeks later and gave me a lst of excuses. >1. it was just a summer thing >2. he needed to focus on school his emt and >firefighting classes >3. he was scared because he thought that this was a >serious relationship and he wasnt ready to settle >down,and he wanted to see what else was out there. >(even though no one said it was serious or asked him >to settle down) >4. he told me that his heart saw me as a friend but >that his brain wanted it to be more (whatever that >means) >then after all of this he told me that i was one of >the best people he had ever met and that he would >defintly want to get back with me in the future. >as if that wasnt enough, 4 days after the breakup e >came to my house at about 1 in the morning. at first >we were just talking then it went to him kissing my >neck and then us makng out with some roaming hands. i >let him do this for a few minutes because i still >love him but then i relized that he was not doing it >for the same reason i was so i pushed him away and >told him to stop messing with my head. he stoped for a >while and then tryed again so i told him to leave. >about two days after that i called him and told him to >meet me at my house after work. at first we were just >talking and then we went in my room and started to >watch tv then he kissed me again. one thing lead to >aother and we found ourselves closer than we ha ever >been to having sex. i am a virgin and plan to remain >that way until marrage but for some reason i was >wlling to give it up until right before the moment >that ould have changed it all. i told him to stop >and that i couldnt do it like that. so he left again. > WHAT DO I DO? i love this guy but he just wants to be >friends. my problem is that i dont think i can be just >a friend! how do i get hm back?

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