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Subject: Help Me!! Author: Angela [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 20:05:46 03/04/06 Sat In reply to: mel 's message, "how to get him back" on 15:20:05 02/16/04 Mon I'm a junior in high school and i've been in love with this guy since 9th grade. Mikey and i dated for a few months and then i felt like i was ruining the relationship because i have really strict parents and i could never manage to get away to see him. So i broke up with him and it was the worst mistake of my life. i cried so much and i've never healed. a month later we got back together and then broke up again and i can still to this day not remember why. Then we both started dating different people and we lost contact. Then i broke up with my bf at the time and he was the first person i called and he helped me. i then found out that he also broke up with his gf at the time to and we started talking more often and building our friendship up again. then a couple months i had a church retreat and when i saw him i ran up to him and just hugged him for what seemed like forever and we spent the rest of the day together. Suring the retreat, we were constantly flirting, hugging, cuddling and kissing!! the next day i asked him what it was about and he was like i dunno. then i found a letter i had written to him after out first break up and i gave it to him. I asked him if he loved me and he was like yes and he asked me if i loved him and i'm like always. he asked me if i wanted to give it another try and i said yes but i need to think because i was at the time grounded and i wanted to make sure what happened in the beginning wouldn't happen again. the next day i called to tell him i wasn't grounded anymore and if he wanted to go out and he's like i'm seeing someone else. i was heartbroken!!! i've been so mad at him but i just find myself falling more in love with him since i can't have him. I really want to get him back. he's the only person i can trust. i don't know what to do now. please help me!! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: how to get him back Author: MMC [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:40:11 03/08/06 Wed Not all but some of you aren't really missing the "guy". But more or less missing how good he treated you...Witch isn't eough to make a relationship last...nor is just loving someone or missing them. The emotions are a very misleading thing. And trust me if a guy says he doesn't want you back or if he's giving you mixed signals...Don't waste your time. Men don't beat it around the bush or play hard to get, like we do. If you keep running after them or trying to have something to do with them, "specially" if they have someone else or showing interest in someone else, you're just going to waste your time and look really stupid or worse...that includes communitcating with them, hanging out with them, sleeping with them, or hating the girl. If you don't want to move on and let go, then how will you even have a chance of meeting the "right one"? Everyone, sooner or later thinks the "right one" got away. But if they where the "right one" there will be no, games or what if's or getting away. It will just happen, he will not have to think about it and he'll marry you without sleeping with you first. Sex will NOT make him stay with you. He'll just take it while he's there and then move on for whatever the reasons he gives. Best thing is not to do anything with them if you aren't married to them....Because if they going to leave they're going to leave regardless, if you sleep with them or not. Do yourself and your future soulmate a BIG favor.I'm GLAD I did. And I know my "husband" wished "HE" HAD. So we know how the story ends and how both verison of the story go...on the subject of sexual acts outside of marriage and about getting him back...If someone is really the right one for you, "HE" will not move on with interest in someone else. He'd be on your door step over and over again asking you back, not pushing you away or leading you on. If he sleeps around with you, he sleep around on you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]