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Subject: Re: how to get him back Author: Destiny [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 18:01:04 05/05/06 Fri In reply to: Wendy 's message, "Re: how to get him back" on 17:15:48 04/06/05 Wed My Ex and I were together for about 2 1/2 years. Our relationship was great for a while,"but there was never really any trust, because of the distants" We broke-up about a year ago, because he thought I hooked up with one of his friends', which at that time I didn't, there was never any attraction to this friend on my behalf; About a year later I hooked up with a different friend of his. Now him and this friend are not friends and they haven't been friend for a while, "not because of me" for something else. Well the only reason I hooked up with this friend was to make my ex jealous. Well it worked and he got really pissed, it work so good that it back fired in my face. I realize that I may have just made the biggest mistake of my life, I want my ex back. I never stop loving him, but the problem is he only wants to talk to me when he feel like it, and when we talk which is brief; he never wants to talk about what happened between me and his ex-friend. I never got my closure from the beginning and I want to get it now, and also tell him that I still love him, and I am willing to give him his space. Is that a good Idea or a bad Idea. and should I just leave him alone all together???? Please help..... Thank Des [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: how to get him back Author: Nita W. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:58:13 05/08/06 Mon Me and Baby were together for 2 months! that sounds short but we did everything together! We saw each other everyday! he brought me work to lunch everyday! and then we would go out after work.we had everything in common. he liked me and i liked him! i was intimate with him a little early but he didn't change. we were so close and we always wanted to be together.But he changed about the last week of our relationship! so i broke up with him! but everytime we break up he calls back and apologize and we together again1 but this time he went to another female house and had sex with her! i was crushed but i wanted him back! so i called and called he talked but had an attitude. he came and saw m e and everything was cool. but then he got attitude again. i gave some space. then i wrote him a 4 page letter and told him to come back and if he dont wanna be with me dont call me. he didnt! so now what? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: how to get him back Author: Brittany [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:43:47 05/30/06 Tue >Me and Baby were together for 2 months! that sounds >short but we did everything together! We saw each >other everyday! he brought me work to lunch everyday! >and then we would go out after work.we had everything >in common. he liked me and i liked him! i was intimate >with him a little early but he didn't change. we were >so close and we always wanted to be together.But he >changed about the last week of our relationship! so i >broke up with him! but everytime we break up he calls >back and apologize and we together again1 but this >time he went to another female house and had sex with >her! i was crushed but i wanted him back! so i called >and called he talked but had an attitude. he came and >saw m e and everything was cool. but then he got >attitude again. i gave some space. then i wrote him a >4 page letter and told him to come back and if he dont >wanna be with me dont call me. he didnt! so now what? You did good with giving him space and letting him deside. If he hasnt called, its probably becuz he changed his mind about you. That doesnt mean whatever you wrote in that note changed his mind. He probably honestly felt like there was no chase or advernture in a relationship. See Guys love advernture and a chase, if you just give a guy all he wants then he is going to get over with you SO FAST. Slow things down dont kiss until like the 3rd week ( i know its hard, becuz I am just like that I rush everything )But in the end it will all work out! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: how to get him back Author: Brittany [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:43:53 05/30/06 Tue >Me and Baby were together for 2 months! that sounds >short but we did everything together! We saw each >other everyday! he brought me work to lunch everyday! >and then we would go out after work.we had everything >in common. he liked me and i liked him! i was intimate >with him a little early but he didn't change. we were >so close and we always wanted to be together.But he >changed about the last week of our relationship! so i >broke up with him! but everytime we break up he calls >back and apologize and we together again1 but this >time he went to another female house and had sex with >her! i was crushed but i wanted him back! so i called >and called he talked but had an attitude. he came and >saw m e and everything was cool. but then he got >attitude again. i gave some space. then i wrote him a >4 page letter and told him to come back and if he dont >wanna be with me dont call me. he didnt! so now what? You did good with giving him space and letting him deside. If he hasnt called, its probably becuz he changed his mind about you. That doesnt mean whatever you wrote in that note changed his mind. He probably honestly felt like there was no chase or advernture in a relationship. See Guys love advernture and a chase, if you just give a guy all he wants then he is going to get over with you SO FAST. Slow things down dont kiss until like the 3rd week ( i know its hard, becuz I am just like that I rush everything )But in the end it will all work out! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]