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Date Posted: 10/26/03 3:27pm
Author: Anita
Subject: well
In reply to: Bix 's message, "I think he actually bought it..." on 10/26/03 2:31pm

>Then, I'd like to throw in something from a military
>perspective which may also apply to Ryan's acting
>career. His family doesn't NEED him in Washington.
>It's not vital to them to have Ryan at home all the
>time. In the military, wives grow used to the
>fact(and sometimes prefer) that their husbands aren't
>around the house every minute of the day. An
>occasional visit is just fine. The women become very
>self-sufficient, as do the children, and the husband
>doesn't really belong in the family unit after a
>certain amount of time.

Personally I dodn't agree with that (I'm not saying that your opinion is wrong, everybody's entitled to their own) but I think a father also plays an important role in a family besides just being the finacial provider but a role in relationship with the kids. I don't believe that the father needs to be around every minute of the day and sometimes the father's jobs or military serve will take them away from the family for a period of time..

I agree with you that the mother's has a very important role in the family and bringing up/nurturing the kids.
>
I'm not trying to make judgements on what anyone believes or does especially Ryan. It really isn't any of our business what goes on in Ryan's private life.

P.S.-I'm not trying to start or cause any agruments here. Just stating my opinion-hope that I'm not going to cause problems.

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