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Date Posted: 03:40:56 03/15/08 Sat
Author: Comicality
Subject: Question #6: What is it that makes sex even HOTTER for you? Is it something mental, something physical, or something emotional?
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Speak Week, Day 6" on 03:24:32 03/15/08 Sat

- When you're in a willing and mutual sexual situation, it's pretty hard to NOT enjoy yourself! I mean, even if it's not as good as you thought it would be...it's still pretty damn good. Hehehe! Better than baking muffins, I'm sure.

However, depending on the person you're with, sex can be amazing! And for a number of different reasons, the person you're with can make all the difference. The question is (And I hope this makes sense)...what 'part' of the other person's involvement enhances the experience for you?

In other words...do you think that sex is more:

Mental? Where someone who is drop dead gorgeous seems like they'd be much better in bed to you than someone who's just 'average'. Or where you just like the way they smell, the smoothness of their skin, the sound of their voice, their perceived intelligence, or the color of their bedroom eyes. Features and traits that don't really have anything to do with the sex itself...but your mind just makes them that much hotter to you when you finally DO get to sleep with them.

Is it more physical? Where the feel of their body, their 'size', their taste...all come into play. Where you're extremely turned on by the contact, and the way they move, and the way they moan, and the way they kiss. Where the sex takes center stage, and even if your attraction isn't as strong for them as it might be for someone else, You can't deny the joy of a hot 'fuck' when you get one! Their passion and sensual expertise in the sex department is what really makes it hot for you.

Or is it more emotional? Where you know that there may be hotter boys out there, and they may be better equipped or really know how to do it right...but they're simply NOT your 'baby'. It's your love for this particular person, your friendship, the laughs you've shared, and the sweet moments you've spent together, that truly turn you on when you're having sex. Once again, it has nothing to do with the sex itself, but the sensation of truly caring about the person you're with and the connection you share. Without feeling the way you feel about them...the sex probably wouldn't do much for you at all.

Let us know what you think! In reality, I'm sure that it's a blend and a balance of all THREE that make really good sex what it is. But I'm asking you to honestly CHOOSE one that sticks out most for you this time. And from your own point of view (Not just sex in general). Which one do you think stands out more for YOU?

Is it your 'mental' making some extremely beautiful, intelligent, boy with a sweet smile seem like he would just be the hottest sex ever in your mind before ever touching him or falling for him?

Is it your 'physical' making you scream his name as he sucks, strokes, kisses, and touches, every inch of you inside and out...giving you wild sexual pleasures that turn you inside out without becoming attached or caring what he looks like?

Or is it your 'emotional' making every loving touch, every caress, every soft kiss against your lips, a truly heartfilled and worthy moment of true bliss no matter what...where good looks and sexual talents are pretty much wasted on you if they're not attached to the boy you love?

Give it some thought, and give us an answer! Be honest. We're not saying that you're shallow and only go for looks, or that you're a slut, or that you're some emotional sap. Hehehe, I'm sure your relationships and all have all three elements working for you just fine. But I'm curious as to what you think might do it for you the most, in your opinion?

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