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Date Posted: 14:44:23 10/10/17 Tue
Author: Mike84
Subject: I can only speak from my own experience but...
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Very true..." on 13:44:06 10/10/17 Tue

Sometimes when I was in that mindset, as much as I was hurting, I didn't want to feel better. And other people trying to help me, sometimes made me feel even worse. Or I felt like there was nothing they could do to help me. I felt 'smothered' at times, despite their best intentions.

And I was half right. No one did actually 'fix me'. I had to 'fix myself'. But I wasn't completely right either because, as I mentioned it took me changing my perception to really help me. And people / stories / movies helped inspire that change.
Although I don't think that would have worked if my family or someone like a psychologist tried to get me to do that. It had to be come from a source that didn't feel intrusive, or directed towards me personally. It was just a little spark that got me thinking, and then gradually I felt a lot better, and looked at things differently.

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