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Date Posted: 10:58:32 01/27/20 Mon
Author: Dom
Subject: I think you probably know what I'm going to say here!
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Imagine Question For 1/15" on 04:48:01 01/15/20 Wed

As we have talked about this before. I would have to say I am a 1.
An example? Took me till I was in my late 30's to tell my family I liked guys!
But to be honest I think the reason is twofold, firstly I come from the type of old British family values of "we don't discuss those sort of things" to quote Helen Mirran in The Queen "That's the way we do things in this country, quietly, with dignity. That's what the rest of the world has always admired us for"

Secondly I have always had this need to keep control of any situation I'm in (personally speaking), as such I don't say anything unless I want someone to know or if they need to. This is a protection mechanism. However this does vary depending on whom I'm with these days.

So to answer the question I probably could discuss more things openly even with family I'm just not comfortable doing so usually.

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