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Date Posted: 20:30:20 04/01/20 Wed
Author: Comicality
Subject: My answer...
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Imagine Question For 4/1" on 17:17:30 03/30/20 Mon


Even if it's not a physical relationship where they're meeting up with some other guy in a hotel to have sex or anything like that...I would definitely consider that cheating. And I won't have any of that. No way.

To me, it's the emotional attachment that's the most important part of two people being in a committed relationship to begin with. And when you're looking at pictures and flirting and cyber-sexing with somebody online...that IS an emotional connection. One that doesn't include me. So, just because the other person isn't actually kissing and making love to my boyfriend, that doesn't mean that they're not involved with one another. They most definitely are. And it hurts. Fantasy or not.

I'd much rather be dumped than cheated on. If I have a boyfriend in real life, and I'm sort of joking around with someone online, even in a flirty way, I know there's a line. And I'll clearly say, "Sorry, I've got a boyfriend." Period. Also, if I have someone that I really have feelings for online and connected with...and then I meet a cute guy in a bar or something who seems 'interested', the same rule applies. "Sorry, I have a boyfriend."

Cheating is just despicable to me. And I've had it happen to me once or twice, and the pain of it never goes away. So, for those 'grass is always greener' folks who think they can have a physical boyfriend and an online fantasy at the same time without either side being compromised? Please stay away from me. I'm not into emotional competition. Either we want to be together or we don't. I'll get over it. Move on and chase you perfect boyfriend. Just keep my heart out of it. I've been through enough, trust me.

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