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Date Posted: 18:43:55 09/01/23 Fri
Author: Comicality
Subject: Imagine Question For 9/1


There's definitely something to say about confidence being sexy! Just being comfortable in your own skin and basically being aware of the fact that you're hot when you're obviously hot! Hehehe, because, why not? Right?

However, there's a line isn't there? I mean where does cute and confident move into the realm of ego and narcissistic self love when it comes to someone that you're dating? Someone that you're trying to build a legitamite relationship with?

There's nothing wrong with someone showing off how cute or how hot they are to other people. If anything, you should be proud of having a partner that's the envy of everyone around you. But...what do you do when their popularity and their good looks become a part of who they are? Like...could you date an Instagram, Tik Tok, Youtube, celebrity? Would it bother you to see them showing off their abs or giving a camera smoldering eyes all the time. I mean, these are things that we have to think about in this day and age. Even if you're in love and they claim to be in love as well...would it bother you to have them constantly on display for other people who are probably just as thirsty for their attention if not more so. Maybe they're just super popular at school, or at work, or whatever. Does it make you self conscious at all? How does it make you feel, knowing that everybody absolutely loves the person that you're with...even if he swears that he's loyal to being just in love with you and you alone?

Let us know what you think! And don't worry about your answer being too long! The longer the better! I really want to hear what you have to say! Speak your mind! Maybe we can all learn something from your point of view! :)

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