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Date Posted: 22:30:03 09/01/23 Fri
Author: Shadow086
Subject: No way...
In reply to: Comicality 's message, "Imagine Question For 9/1" on 18:43:55 09/01/23 Fri

That's the kind of person you admire from a distance, or maybe hook up with a few times, but don't try to go any further than that.

In my opinion, people who become Instagram, Tik Tok, or Youtube celebrities because of their looks, well, they just want the attention and compliments. The only one he's loyal to just being in love with is himself, always remember that. As long as you keep stroking that ego and telling him how hot he is, you'll be fine; but if you let the compliments dry up, so will his love for you. He's made 'being hot' into his career, so he'll move on to one of the thousands of people who still give him that ego boost.

I tried building a serious relationship with a narcissist once, and it's just not worth it. They just tear you down, break your self-confidence, and move on without a care in the world once you stop feeding them what they want.

While I do find some amount of confidence to be a boost on the attractiveness scale, and I do like a guy who's comfortable in his own skin (it can make the difference between average and hot sometimes), I always have that wariness in the back of my mind that it's the narcissistic kind of confidence, and so I stay away.

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  • Probably not. -- TurtleBoy, 10:26:29 09/02/23 Sat

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