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Subject: Re: What crap

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Date Posted: 23:29:45 03/13/06 Mon
Author Host/IP: 210-55-16-78.cid.global-gateway.net.nz/
In reply to: Kyia....... 's message, "Re: What crap" on 19:40:15 01/25/06 Wed

>Hi - have been reading all your messages and they are soooo interesting - especially from those who actually spend time with the band. I am just a plain old Def Lep fan and have been for the last 25 or so years. Being from NZ the boys have only toured here once - but am hoping they may come again. How do you get back stage and past all the security and roadies to actaully meet these guys? I dont want to sleep with them or marry them - as a fan I just want to meet them once in my life. Any suggestions?

>To Everyone,
>Some of you I know and had good times with when we
>were with the guys or touring.And then there are some
>who claim to know things about them,even though they
>have hardly(if ever) spent any time with the band at
>For those of you(and you know who you are) who think
>they know things,there is a difference in being a
>groupie or just a follower.For the followers,you have
>no clue as to what really go's on,so you try to make
>something up.Then you come to this board and tell your
>story thinking your the only one to have been with one
>of the guys.Funny how some of us saw through the story.
>For groupies,in some cases,we live with these
>guys,sometimes till the end of the tour.Married or
>not,it's not always about the sex or claiming which
>band member we slepted with or how many times or what
>their into or not between the sheets.Sometimes,it's
>just too simple.But for some,it's the person and thats
>I can't tell you how many times I've seen girls of all
>ages try every trick in the book to to get close to
>these guys(and other bands)thinking they'll be the
>next Mrs.such-n-such or(or their girlfriend)what
>ever,not relizing it's not going to happen.None of
>them are really going to settle for just someone they
>meet on tour,unless there is really something to
>settle for.And I mean really settle for.
>Groupies on the other hand are more real and
>understand that when the tour is over,so is the
>relationship,.Most of us are not looking for long
>term,but if it happens,then thats fine too,but
>doubful.So why do we do it if we know it's not going
>to last?Are we crazy or something?To waste time with
>someone in a dead-end relationship?Maybe.
>But who knows and in all honesty,who cares?Fun is fun
>and the sex is great too(if your lucky),but even us
>old timers and not so old know,but only our reasons
>So before someone go's talken crap or such,keep in
>mind,some of us on this board know what we are talking
>about.Maybe you should be asking,what are you not
>telling everyone?

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  • Re: What crap -- want to know....., 07:55:00 06/01/06 Thu (static-66-16-38-51.dsl.cavtel.net/

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