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Subject: I no longer 'loan' my dd's solo or school costume. Can't stand when folks are nice when they need it but nasty the rest of the time. Let them put out the $ like I had to! Author: Newly Selfish [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:36:27 07/24/08 Thu In reply to: Amazed at how things are done 's message, "Same here. Had to purchase a new dress when my dd started teams. $750. DD had major growth spurt, so new dress I purchased didn't fit following year. I was told to give the 1 year old dress to another dancer, that it fit, and my dd got stuck with a school dress that was at least 3 years old that another dancer out grew - not much I could do as O was a month away and dd was part of several teams." on 04:02:18 07/24/08 Thu [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date DD had team costume but had injury at the O and couldn't dance. "Loaned" school dress to another so team could still dance but gueass what! Never saw the dress again. So I'm out the dress and the money to sell it. Worst of all-someone in our dance school is wearing it with DD's name inside and won't come forward with it! (NT) No more teams for us. 09:29:01 07/24/08 Thu Where's your TCRG?????? (NT) -- that's not acceptable, 11:41:24 07/24/08 Thu She's the one telling us to give dresses to so and so, etc. What's a parent to do when a teacher tells you that you need to give your dress to this person or that person. (NT) -- It's just the way it's done at some schools, 18:57:53 07/24/08 Thu What's a parent to do? How about saying "No, not unless I am properly compensated." Why, oh why, do we treat these TC's like they are dictators? (NT) -- Fear Itself, 07:48:29 07/25/08 Fri So that I don't upset the "apple cart" and so that my daughter doesn't suffer any fallout. (NT) -- Daughter's peace of mind first before my wallet unfortunately, 09:05:39 07/25/08 Fri And what about your peace of mind? I know when I am upset, my dd feels my pain. Don't let the TC treat you like a doormat! (NT) -- Righteous Mom, 11:57:07 07/25/08 Fri Reminds me of a very painful incident from several years ago K 12:30:36 07/24/08 Thu Oh it wasn't "loaned" to the dancer it fit, it was given to her and then became hers until she outgrew it. Cost me $750, DD gets 1 year out of it, and then my dd stuck with 3 year old dress that several other dancers had worn before her. I honestly felt I should have had some monetary compensation, after all I paid a lot of money for a brand new dress that my dd only wore a few times that year (O and dance-outs), as she competed in her solo dress. So not fair!! (NT) Simply shocked and amazed 04:01:52 07/25/08 Fri I would have offered to sell it to the child it fit for $600, then buy the 3 year old dress for $300. -- mom, 07:15:47 07/25/08 Fri