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...So, I have to admit that I'm not exactly sure how I would deal with that situation in real life. I'd like to think that I'd be pretty flexible in a lot of ways when it came to keeping my partner happy and satisfied...but it depends how extreme their needs may be.

For one...I'm an affectionate person. I always have been. Friends, family, co-workers...I appreciate physical interaction. Nothing excessive, just an occasional hug, a kiss, a smile, whatever. Now, if I was dating someone that was a little more guarded with their affections, that would be fine. I don't need fuzzy wuzzy snuggles and kisses every ten minutes or anything to feel good. BUT...if I was dating someone who was like, "Don't TOUCH me! Get away!" Ummm, yeah...that wouldn't work for me at all. I would be starved for some form of intimacy. Intimacy is a part of what I fall for in a partner to begin with. We'd have to find some kind of middle ground in order to be happy, you know?

As for sex? I feel the same way. I would definitely want my partner's world to be rocked! Hehehe! Tell me what you want and let's so how we can work this out. I like sex! Can't think of anything that I'd much rather be doing at any point of my day other than having sex! But again...it depends on how extreme the request is. If we're making sweet love, and then you're like, "I want you to CHOKE me until I pass out!"...I would have a problem with that. If someone wanted to be hurt or humiliated, I don't think I could really get into it like they'd want me to.

Now, mind you, I'm not saying that there's anything wrong or strange about the practices themselves. If that's what you like, then it's just what you like, and that's fine. But as far as compatibility goes with me personally...I don't think either one of us could possibly be getting any real fulfillment out of it. I'm not into rape scenarios, or wearing tight leather...I couldn't be a furry...it's just not me. And I've always felt like sex was the truest, most honest, expression of yourself. Once you take the 'truth' out of it, the excitement and desire goes right out the window with it.

But there's a chance that any one of us can find someone special who's into exactly what it is that we're looking for. So seek them out, and be happy. Just...please don't pee on me! Hehehe! I'm only gonna be thinking about the mess I'm going to have to clean up later.

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