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Subject: Re: Question for the Girls


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Happy (Very Happt)
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Date Posted: Tue, May 05 2009, 11:52:27am
In reply to: What do you expect?! 's message, "Re: Question for the Girls" on Wed, Jan 19 2005, 2:27:57pm

>I have to agrre with "1". Not 2 b 2 harsh, and I know
>things happen sometimes but you got yourself into that
>one and asked for it. Of course they see you that way
>when you presented yourself that way. What do you
>expect? Respect from those guys? If you wanted
>respec you went about it the wrong way. Hooking up
>with someone you obviously dont know and who is there
>with a bunch of other guys and doing it in a car in
>the parking lot is not gonna get you that my dear so
>don't be so outraged when they treat you the way they
>did, you definitley were not discreet so expect to be
>talked about. Thats just the way it goes. Ive seen
>it happen b 4 and itll happen again. Maybe next time
>you will know better and will act in a way that
>demands respect. and if you dont regret it why are
>you complaining so much about the consequences of your
>actions?
OK Heres the deal. I was at my friends bar in New Jersey waiting for her to get off work so we could hang. Every night certin Nj Devils players came in to have a few drinks. I would have some fun conversations with them, some would give me man Advice and so on. Well one night one of the Devils asked me in FRONT OF THE REST OF THEM, if I would go home with him for the night. (I knew that he had a thing for me cause if I had a guy with me he would shoot them dirty looks) I told him VERY nicely that I was saving myself for marriage, but thank you for the compliment. He and the other guys were shocked but after a min the clapped for me and I laughed. Boy did they have respect for me after that. I dated the guy for awhile but we broke it off because he really wanted it, I told him that Mr. Right would not try to pressure me for Sex. We are still friends, and he came to my wedding and told my hubby how lucky he was to have a virgin. The whole team heard about my stand, and they all come up to me oneday at a practice (I brought my friends Deaf brother, they were so good to him) anyway they all kissed me and told me how wonderful it was that I was that way. (I say was cause now I'm very married so no longer a virgin LOL) My point is...they love you more and you have a better chance of being with one of them if you are not going to give it up easily. I'm NOT telling you to be a virgin. I did it cause I knew my luck and I would have a child and no husband LOL. But I'm glad I said no.

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