| Subject: Advice for "wanna-be" edge players |
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Jeff
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Date Posted: 23:28:36 06/06/05 Mon
I've followed SK's site for years,back when he was being shut down,and changing providers,and content trying to appease the thought police. The one thread I see in all the years of enjoying this site,is posters talking tough, and then griping about how disappointed they are when they actually try to act out their fantasies. There's an old saying-"Beware of what you want,because you might get it." I'm a hardcore S/M player and have done stuff we don't talk about at parties in search of the "ultimate thrill." I have to quote Clint Eastwood from the movie "Magnum Force." "Briggs was right,you guys don't have enough experience." If you want to play with pain and unnatural acts,you have to realize,Pain hurts. Unnatural acts hurt. The body has an innate self-preservation mechanism. Your brain and body don't want to pass out. Any episode of forced unconciousness,is going to have to be,duh,-forced. It's not pretty, or pleasant. If your freaky-deaky, you may get off on it, but most people don't. I don't panic when I'm ass-smothered,or choked unconcious, because I know the signs,and I know I'm going to wake up. If I don't, I'm also ok with the fact that I died doing something freaky, and my family and friends are going to have a hard time dealing with that. Here's the "You don't have enough experience" problem. You tell a pro-domme that you want to pass out "No matter what",you have balls of steel,ignore your protests,and take you to the promised land. She does and suffocates your ass to unconciousness with her thighs,or her rubber skirt or a plastic bag. You freak,griping I thought I was going to die, it was painful,she showed no mercy, etc. That's what you paid for,dumb ass!! Fantasies and "Forum stories" can fuck you up. I once paid a pro mistress,because I had read a penthouse forum type jerk-off story about the same thing, to tie me up,torture me for an hour,then leave me tied up for an hour,torture me,and leave me tied up again and again for about 4 hours. In fantasy it sounded good. In reality,when she wasn't there I was bored to death and in pain,and not pleasant pain. Without a "Sweet Tormentor" to stimulate you, being tied up gets boring after about 10 minutes. Since I was a dumb ass and told her to not remove my gag under any circumstances, I couldn't even tell her I'd changed my mind! It wasn't her fault, it was mine. She did what I paid her to do to the letter. If you say you want to be choked out,don't whine because you didn't like it. Make sure you can handle what your asking for both mentally and physically. Now that I know my limits, I have much more fun. For example, I can take extreme CBT-"Cock and Ball Torture". They can tie,whip,and kick me in the balls all they want,and I'll say-"Thank you mistress,may I have another?" "Yet I'm a "nipple wimp." I can't take the mildest nipple clamps for even five minutes. I used to fantasize about being "forced" to enjoy nipple torture. Didn't work. After I realized it didn't work, I didn't have the fantasy any more. You may not like being choked out as much as you think. But don't bitch about it here,take responsibility for your own actions, and don't play the victim because your fantasy didn't come true exactly as you dreamed.
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