| Subject: Response to the message below "1st "TAKOTSA"annual fundraising" |
Author: mb adm [Edit]
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Date Posted: Wed, Aug 19 2009
Ok here's my take on the message below and a few of the messages in the board which obviously could suggest hate and anger. Ilocanoek laengen ta Ilocano tayo met amin ditoy. I don't usually post anything like this but this time I would like to make a point hopefully to pacify feuding people. Dagitay adda saan nga agkikinnaawatan apo (ammo yo siguron no sino kayo), kurang la siguro iti kommunikasyon. No kimkimen yo dayta gura yo iti tumungal maysa, awan iti papanan na apo no di ket dumakkel laeng dayta apoy making your own lives miserable. I know it is hard but have a heart to forgive and forget, and one way you can do that is by sitting down with that person and I am sure you already know who he/she is and talk it out. Find the bottom of the problem and I could guarantee you that would solve most of the problems besetting you and that other person. If you don't have the guts to do that, MOVE ON. The past is past. There are so many important things in life where we can devote more time and energy with. As one of the posters said "He who angers you controls you!" so I would suggest for you to take a break, avoid going to places in the Internet such as chatrooms, mb's including this mb, etc. where it would just stressed you out to be there. Do that for awhile or better yet stay away all together and perhaps stay away also from that person you hate so much. If you don't bother him/her, he/she won't bother you. Also, there is not really much you can do with what goes on behind your back such as the negative things they say about you so instead of thinking about it just let it go since that is beyond your control. Devote more time to something more productive instead. If you could do all those, you wouldn't believe how peaceful your mind would be thus would make you enjoy life a lot more. These are just my suggestions to those of you who are being bothered by these petty little things which are controlling your emotions.
For those people who go behind a mask through using fake names, fake proxy IP's, etc. when posting so they can get at other people or to instill chaos among people or to a certain a individual, please have a conscience. Depending how you are doing it, it could also be illegal so protect yourselves since you (especially the "parokyanos" of this mb) could pretty much tell who the people are behind these messages.
I don't know a whole lot of people in this mb personally except for a few but I have learned to love everybody like my own close friends but I am very disappointed that there are so much anger and hate among some of our kababayans here as seen on some of the messages and to the many unpublished messages that I've received. The sad thing is it is a fact, and I am not sure if there is really much I can do no matter how hard I try to unite this mb community in my own little way. Yes we do have freedom of expression here and we try to accommodate everyone but I would also like to ask everyone to be please be civilized with your conversations and please do not abuse it. We are all grownups and we know what is good and bad. Let us avoid posting innuendos, intrigues, personal matters(yours or others), personal grudges and most especially insulting remarks. Those are the things where we usually get in trouble with here at the mb. Let us respect one another and respect the messages as well. I do reject messages but that doesn't mean I am turning you away. I just don't want you or the other person or groups getting in trouble. My job here is to present the messages, and what goes on between people outside this mb is none of my business but that doesn't mean that I do not care. I do care for everybody (no exception) and that is coming from the bottom of my heart - no strings attached.
Ala ket uray no kasta, padpadasek nga imintinar latta daytoy nga mb apo. Para kadayo amin daytoy isu nga isakit tay koma met apo otherwise this mb could vanish forever. I hope that is not too much to ask.
This message is directed to all posters, browsers, and readers of this mb.
Naimbag nga aldaw/rabii tayo amin apo.
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... (NT) -- USN-RET, Wed, Aug 19 2009
- Pls. excuse the typo/grammar errors. I posted the message without proofreading much but I think you got what I am trying to say. Thank you. (NT) -- mb adm, Wed, Aug 19 2009
Great reminder Mr Admin. Ayayatek nga Kailian, ..Love one another! Life is wonderful. (NT) -- Elena, Fri, Aug 21 2009
- You did very well, Larry...no apologies necessary. My feeling is that, I think our friends just like to fool around and tease each other. Folks, we all need to understand that, if all of us try to work together and help our town, ourselves, and even our families...what a great feat can we accomplish. All of us come from differrent locations of the world, have varied opinions, contrasting personalities but we all can be a powerful block if we treat each other respectfully. Our goal should be to build ourselves as one true "kailians," ... imagine the results. Paul, Andring Ladi, Atty. Romeo Somera, Auntie Elena, Johnny Cross, MD Boys (as web leaders) and the list goes on...please help lead us, the younger generation build a, "strong bond of collaboration," if not for friendship's sake...build it for our children and thier perceptions of who they can be with each other (Tagudinians). Thank you all for working together not against each other. -- Dr. Conrad Ulpindo (Leaderhip is doing the right thing!), Fri, Aug 21 2009
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