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Date Posted: 04:58:27 09/25/11 Sun
Author: Ravenbeauty
Subject: A column of a different kind..........

Hey Guys,



I know that many of you (particularly on my Facebook) have been wondering what is going on with me, and why I have not been around very much over the past two weeks. I really wrestled with telling you this because I wasn't entirely sure that it was the right thing to do. Some of you already know what I am about to share and have encouraged me to let my readers know what is going on, but my initial knee jerk reaction was to try and keep this to myself. I didn't want to expose a vein, and wasn't sure that it was the right thing to do.

We go way back you and I. Most of you have been readers of mine since the beginning (2001). I have been truly blessed to have your love and support for so many years. I am so grateful to you. I am truly grateful to my sources out there. Some of the actors themselves have proven to be some of the loveliest people I have ever come to know in my life. Cat, you will always stand out for me because you are beautiful in so many ways. You are so real and genuine. You have helped me in ways you cannot imagine so far. Thank you for that, as I know your schedule is insane. You really are a precious jewel (it's why so many of your fans love you).

As most of you know from reading my interview with SoapZone back in April, I dealt with breast cancer extremely young (in my twenties). Our family has very rare cancer genes that tend to complicate our lives. Last week I learned that the cancer is back in not one, but both breasts. I was not prepared for this and needed to step away to just breathe and attempt to process all of this. To complicate matters, it is a very rare and aggressive form of cancer known as Epitheloid Angiosarcoma. My mammograms and ultrasounds were fine (rather frightening in retrospect). This is a cancer that attacks the blood vessels and has already begun sinking into my breast from the skin down. It has moved from my left breast (where I originally had cancer) to my right breast. It is rare (there are only a handful of cases like this in the United States). It can happen to people with certain genetic markers who have had radiation to their breasts in the past. The incubation period is usually 5-10 years after having the initial radiation. I've spent the past two weeks wishing I had done the Mastectomy instead of what I chose to do years back (Lumpectomy with Radiation) but I can't do that, I have to move forward instead.

I am going for a PET scan to see if it has spread and where. Chemo is not an option for me (would rather not go into the details) and you cannot radiate a breast twice. Surgery is our main option now. They want to do a radical mastectomy with larger margins as soon as possible (within a few weeks if we can get everything scheduled just right). The next month or so is going to be a bit of a blur for me. Because I honestly don't know what to expect, I am letting you know that I will obviously need to skip columns here and there, as I am doing this weekend. It's incredibly hard to focus on anything else right now, however I will get to you what I can as I walk through this. A lot will depend on how I feel and how long of a hospital stay I will have. I will try to get out a column or two before I go into surgery, but they will need to be brief. I will try to keep you updated as much as possible.

I have been blessed to have such lovely readers who have shown me so much love and support over the years. If things don't go very well, I wanted to say that here and now. You have added to my life in so many ways. Sharing scoops and dishing with you over the years has been a lot of fun and I don't regret any of it (even some of the negativity could not take away from all the positives). Hopefully, I will get through this and be able to continue doing what I love so well, but if things do not go as planned, I wanted you to know how much I love you, and how much you guys have meant to me over the years. I will post this on my site at Voy as well, although I know that most of you post over here on my Facebook page instead.

For my female readers out there, please be aware that some of the deadliest forms of breast cancer are not found through a mammogram or ultrasound. The cancer grows in sheets on the breast and will often appear as a rash. I began to see a strange growth on the skin of my left breast (it did not hurt or itch which bothered my Oncologist). I went in to have that breast biopsied, but at the last minute, the surgeon asked me if I wouldn't mind if she obtained tissue samples of the right as well. Like so many women, I would get an itchy rash that would come and go that seemed hormonally related on my right breast. She got biopsies of that one too, and both sides were cancerous. I was told that it stunned even the pathologist who ran the tests again and sent smaller samples to another lab for further testing. Had I not met with this particular surgeon who was so meticulous and observant, I would have never known that the other breast was cancerous as well. Please be aware of any strange growths or rashes that appear on the skin of your breasts. They will undoubtedly send you for a mammogram and an ultrasound (that's if they don't pass it off as dermatitis as so many will do), but only a biopsy can tell the tale when dealing with this form of breast cancer. If you want to do something for me, you will research Inflammatory Breast Cancer, Paget's disease, and Epitheloid Angiosarcoma so that you are fully aware of these forms and how they may appear on the breast. You won't have lumps and they do not show up with a regular mammogram or ultrasound. Please see a dermatologist or breast surgeon immediately if you feel you have anything suspicious like this on your breast that doesn't go away. Insist on a punch biopsy at the very least. If this can save even one life, it was worth exposing that vein and sharing something so very personal with all of you.

I will keep you posted as much as possible. Thank you so much for your many years of friendship. Your love and support has not gone unnoticed. I love you guys. I always will. I leave you for now with fingers crossed and a heart full of hope. XOXO!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Daryl (Praying for you), 05:14:13 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven,

You are like a dear friend that I only get to meet online through your columns but you have to devote your energy to recovering from this. Do what you can when you can but YOU have to come FIRST !!! Praying for you and wish you a speedy recovery.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Diana, 10:31:43 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, Hang in there, you will get thru this. I have been battling Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma since 2001 & know everything will be good for you. Right now all of it is very hard, but keep a positive attitude & please know that all of us who love you, will be praying for you. I know how much the prayers of so many friends & friends of friends have helped me thru my journey & the same will be true for you. Alot of this isn't so great but please remember, there have been so many advances since your original diagnosis. It is amazing what is possible - even with such a tough diagnosis. You will come thru all of this. We are all here for you!

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[> [> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Keesha, 01:01:13 10/08/11 Sat [1]

I am not a subscriber but I every so often, I like to come and read your spoilers. When I read what you are going through, I couldn't help but cry. I have enjoyed reading your columns and I wish you nothing but the best and speediest recovery. May God be with you and your family. Sending good vibes your way.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Mary, 14:32:11 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, I'm wishing for strength and determination for you during this fight you unfortunately have again. You were blessed to find a competent and intuitive surgeon. May you continue to find the best medical professionals to help you win this battle. Knowledge is power. Do anything and everything in your power to beat this.
And on those not so fabulous days in your future, please try to remember: when you need Him most, God will be carrying you in His hands.
Your health is so much more important than backstage scoops from soap operas. While it's always fun for us to get tidbits of info, your only concern should be you. God bless you and update us as you can.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Nancy P (So sorry ...), 09:04:45 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Raven,

I really enjoy reading your columns and feeling a little like a soap "insider".

I was shocked to read about your cancer diagnosis. My husband is toward the end of his battle with a brain tumor, so I have some insight into the cancer experience from the viewpoint of a caregiver. Cancer sucks! It's an unpredictable rollercoaster ride. (As a cancer survivor, you would know this already.)

Please do what you need to do to take care of yourself, whether that's keeping up with your columns or taking a break for awhile.

One last thing... if you're in a city with a Gilda's Club or a Wellness Community, they run amazing support groups for people with cancer.

I'm praying that your surgery goes well and that you have an excellent longterm prognosis.

All my best!

Nancy P

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- STEPHANIE, 23:26:40 09/27/11 Tue [1]

MY SISTER-IN-LAW HAD SERIOUS BREAT CANCER AND WAS TOLD SHE'D DIE 4 TIMES. SHE HAD CHEMO AND A YEAR LATER, IS CANCER FREE. THEY ARE DOING MIRACLES IN CANCER ALL THE TIME. LET'S ALL PRAY RAVEN GETS ANOTHER MIRACLE.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Samantha, 04:33:51 09/28/11 Wed [1]

I've enjoyed your columns for many years, and wish you a speedy recovery. There are a lot of people you bring joy too, and we will all be praying & rooting for you.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- pspcindy, 10:33:59 10/02/11 Sun [1]

Will be thinking of you and praying for the best Raven!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Sue, 05:17:01 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I am sitting here, stunned and for a loss of words to type. But my prayers are for you and your recovery...

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Kay, 05:22:07 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, Please take care of yourself and don't worry about updates. Your health is more important. Will be sending prayers to you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- brenda, 05:31:48 09/25/11 Sun [1]

What a shock, one that too many women have to face in their lives but there has been so much progress over the last few years. But the surgeon asking for a second biospy is one of those life-changing meant to be moments that gives me hope that all will turn out well. Sometimes it is something so small that makes all the difference. Try to keep your spirits up and focus on all the positives. Any time you need some encouragement and good wishes, just "drive-by" as you have done so many times in the past and all your friends here will be waiting with open arms and lots of love to give you support. We're also here if you just need to vent or scream. A loyal reader and admiring fan...Brenda Kastner from Montreal

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Teri Luke, 05:35:17 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I am remembering our recent "conversation". Please know that you are in my prayers, both your health, your recovery and your doctors- may they have the wisdom and intuition to come up with the best and most successful course of action. All the best!xoxoxo

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Red Roses, 05:35:37 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, I have followed your column for about nine years now and I have always enjoyed your scoops and spoilers. I feel like you're a familiar friend, even though I've never met you. I was looking forward to this week's edition, but I was saddened to learn about your current condition. Please don't worry too much about trying to bring us columns while you're going through this; we completely understand that you're health is your number 1 priority right now, and I'd much rather have you 100% healthy before you get back into the thick of bringing us info. This is completely devastating news to hear, but I hope you get well soon and I wish you a speedy recovery XOXO

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Denise, 05:59:09 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Good luck, get better an u will b in my prayers.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Sonya, 06:14:16 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Hi Raven! I read your column all the time and follow you on facebook. I'm sorry you are going through this. :( I will pray for you. *BEARHUGS*

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Brinard, 06:50:48 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven i am praying for you even right now as i to begun read this. I decree and declare that you will have a healthy long-life, and that this disease will go away and never return anywhere near you in Jesus' name. Amen

Sending you lots of love and lot's of support

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Thomas, 07:01:51 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, you just do what you have to do and focus on your health. That is ALL that matters. We will all be here praying and sending out all the positive energy we can to you!

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[> Sweetheart! I hope you already know how much I love you. (I know that you do.) The other thing I offer you now is hope... -- TV Gord, 07:32:36 09/25/11 Sun [1]

http://www.cancersurvivorspark.ca/hope.htm

A few years ago, I became a good luck charm for someone very close to me. This link tells the story. Since then, I have gotten four more stones for other people in my life battling cancer, and...so far so good. My record is clean.

I'm going straight over to the Cancer Survivors Park right now! I'm going to get a stone for you and I'm going to carry it with me every waking moment until I find out from you that you've gotten through this ordeal and are on the path to recovery.

You won't come through this unscathed, but you CAN come through it stronger. If anyone can, I know it's you.

I always trust my gut feeling, and my gut is telling me you will be okay. It's going to be a rough journey that I wish to hell you didn't have to go through, but please trust my gut. And never forget my LOVE...and my HOPE!

Your Gordie

P.S. Please don't force yourself to write any columns. All of your energy needs to go to one thing right now. Then, we expect HUNDREDS more columns from you! We'll hold you to it! {{{HUG}}}

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Betsy (My thoughts and prayers !!), 07:40:53 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Dear Raven,

Sending positive energy, prayer for your recovery and strength to face your surgery and treatment. Things are changing fast on the science frontier and I have great HOPE for you to come thru this awful event cancer free and strong !

God Bless,
Betsy

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- old janet (So sorry), 07:52:06 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Prayers are with you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Nancy, 08:26:23 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I am new to your column, but so enjoy it. Please take care of yourself first. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Kathy, 08:33:14 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, I've been reading your column for years and have been grateful for the behind-the-scenes information you've given us. I have tears in my eyes and a prayer in my heart for you, a friend I've never met. God bless you and grant you strength for the fight you are going to be making, and give you health. Don't worry about your column---concentrate your energies on getting healthy. We'll all be sending you positive energy, prayers, and thoughts.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Erin Goeller, 08:46:53 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I have read your column for a while now and really look forward to your scoop and spoilers. However, I am truly sadden and sorry about your current health situation. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Focus on your health, and if you can do a column here or there okay, but if you can't because of what is going on with your health, we will all understand.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Tears, 08:49:16 09/25/11 Sun [1]

You have me in tears. I have been a huge fan of yours for years. I feel like you are saying goodbye. I am so scared for you. I can't believe you are going down this road again. You are such a brave and beautiful woman. I know you will make it Raven. You just have to. I just stopped by your Facebook and could not believe the outpouring over there for you! You have so many fans who adore you! You have to take it one day at a time. Don't worry about your column now. Your fans are loyal and will be here for you when you are better. You have to get better. Your beloved mom is watching over you to make sure you get better. What a brave thing you did here by sharing with us. You may have saved a life here.

You are an amazing woman! We love you Raven! I am praying for you! Look at all the people praying for you on Facebook and Twitter! May God help you in your greatest time of need. Hang in there beautiful one! Your fans will be here if you need us! XOXOXO!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Dedrical, 08:52:30 09/25/11 Sun [1]

May God be with you and your family as you deal with this crisis.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Rudi, 08:56:14 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven, I'm one of the people who usually just lurk. I've loved you since we first "met" online. You are one in a million. This too will pass. Trust Gordie. Trust God. Those of us who have been touched by your words and your story are praying for you. Don't worry about columns. Focus your energy on getting better. That is the primary thing. We will expect to see you here in a few months back on your feet and healthy again. Until then, we love you. Remember that.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Leslie (In my prayers), 08:57:53 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I have been reading your column for years and you have always given me a lot of joy. You have many people praying for you right now. Keep strong as you struggle down this dark path, and know that you do not struggle alone!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- A reader, 09:01:24 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I am so sorry to hear about your illness. Last year my aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer also and went through months of chemo and radiation. So I truly understand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep on fighting and god bless.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Jean (worried), 09:13:04 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Good Luck to you, Raven, on this journey you are taking. You have many many fans and friends praying for you and sending out all kinds of good thoughts and lots of love! We will be here when you come back. You are the best at what you do, kiddo! My prayers are with you!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Catherine (Canuono@aol.com), 09:19:18 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Oh no. I will add you to my prayers.

I also had Breast Cancer and it was horrible. So far i been lucky.


Hugs to you and let us know.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Evelyn, 09:23:33 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven,I've appreciated you and your columns over these many years. Please know that there are many of us out here who will send our prayers out for your healing and complete recovery. Stay strong and know that you are loved.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- dr.ivankipling, 09:31:38 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven,your first priority is your health. Don't give the column a second thought. As much as we like having you give us the scoops we'd much rather have you in 100%good health.
We're all keeping you in our hearts,thoughts,&prayers. You'll come through this!! :)
XOXOXOXOXOXO

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- andee, 10:20:44 09/25/11 Sun [1]

thanks for being brave enough to share. my thoughts and prayers for you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Lisa, 11:04:32 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Re: Column of a different kind

Firstly, I wanted to tell you that you are a remarkable person to alert us to angiosarcoma. I think you show strentgh and a tremendous amount of courage during what has to be a very difficult time. I wanted to tell you that I think cancer has nothing on you and I believe you will be healthy and well after surgery. I will say prayers daily for you. Many kinds of cancers run in my family including a rare form of sarcoma of the uterus. I screen for uterine ,bowel and breast cancer ( 2 yearly and bowel every 3-5 years ) since I was in my 30's. I must thank you for the information you provided about angiosarcoma. Continue to talk to us just about how you are feeling, and vent. It's time for us to give you the support you need to get through this. Much love !!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Guest, 11:23:57 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I hope all goes well for you..Take care of your health..Prayers are with you..I know you will beat this, Good Luck

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[> i posted a response to you on facebook but will here too -- ozzie, 11:39:20 09/25/11 Sun [1]

i TOTALLY agree with gordie and rudi. we have been with you since the beginning. we have watched you grow and flourish! we love you immensely and will have listening ears when you need. please focus on you now. you have lots of love here to help you. from your long time board bud, ozzieharry, aka ozzie, aka andrea....

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Dineen (sad), 11:40:05 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I found you about a year ago! You are wonderful! I will be praying for you through this journey.

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[> God bless you at this difficult time Raven. I love you and your courage is outstanding. -- Belinda, 12:20:06 09/25/11 Sun [1]

To have the courage and tell us your personal issues is wonderful. Maybe you can help one of your readers with your pain and process...you just never know.
I will add you to my prayer list and you are in my thoughts anyway. I was wondering how you were feeling about AMC and how it ended. But this news just blows my mind. We love you and if you need to vent, talk to us, we will all listen and encourage you. You truly are one special lady and God has a plan for you...stay strong...be strong...we are here for you. If you ever need to talk my email is Lerey42@aol.com. I love you lady!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Heather, 12:52:02 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Be strong and I hope you make it through this better than ever. Thank you for all that you do.

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[> Sending you love, love, love & peace, peace, & more peace. -- chezmere, 13:21:27 09/25/11 Sun [1]


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[> Oh dear friend, we do go way back, more years than -- LAwoman, 13:31:51 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I even want to count. One thing I know with absolute certainty is that you are amazingly strong. What you must do now is be selfish. I mean it. Don't worry about other people's needs or wants. You will need your focus and considerable strength and positivity to do what I know you will do---kick cancer's ass. I have so much love and admiration for you and I'm sending hugs and all positive thoughts to you. Love you girl.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Thelma, 13:39:57 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I just want to thank you for sharing with us what you are going through right now. I will definitely keep you in my prayers.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Chris, 13:49:15 09/25/11 Sun [1]

I'm sorry that your cancer came back! I hope and pray you get well soon! LET GOD BE WITH YOU ON THIS DIFFUCULT JOURNEY!!!!!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- mushy, 19:34:53 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Raven ... My thoughts and prayers are with you. BEAT this EVIL in your body. I know you can do it! love and luck

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- ethel, 22:03:29 09/25/11 Sun [1]

you will certainly be remembered in my daily prayers.......

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Terry K, 23:47:47 09/25/11 Sun [1]

Dear Raven,

I am also one of the "lurkers" of your amazing columns that I have enjoyed for years. I was stunned to read this today.
It's just like you to be straight forward, informational, and caring about your readers. Thank you for educating us about this form of breast cancer. I have always read a "strength" in your writing, and I know this will be a huge component as you fight your way through this battle. You are so loved and respected by so many... remember, each day, that your fans are with you in spirit and sending love and prayers for a complete recovery. <3

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Ginger, 23:55:39 09/25/11 Sun [1]

You are in my prayers.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Dinah, 02:08:50 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Raven I know you have a a lot to deal with right now, please take care of yourself and keep positive thoughts as you fight this terrible disease. If you feel like taking a break for awhile we will all understand. Keeping you in my prayers. (((Hugs)))

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Cheryl, 02:44:54 09/26/11 Mon [1]

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of upset...Please try and be positive....light and good are drawn to the positive in life....Your attitude can help you beat this.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- rapido (My prayers are with you), 02:51:32 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Praying for your recovery . Are you seeking an opinion from a comprehensive cancer center, not sure where you live. There is a consortium of cancer hospitals affiliated with the National Cancer Institute. Hang on.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Deborah, 03:28:36 09/26/11 Mon [1]

My prayers are with you no matter what road you decided to go down. You are a wonderful, caring loving person and wish you nothing but love.l

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- CM, 03:53:41 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Raven-

I am praying for you-

Please visualize nothing but good things-

I am sending out good thoughts to you.

God bless you-

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Tamalemama, 05:32:51 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Dear Raven, I have such respect and adoration for you. Somehow without even meeting each other face to face, I think of you as an old friend. As old friends, we support each other thru the good times and bad. You are a beautiful light that shines thru the darkness. Hold onto your light as tight as you can and never let go. We are all here to support you and just know that you are loved.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Veruca, 06:41:26 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Stay strong. I'll be sending postive thoughts your way.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Jaya Hariprasad, 07:38:58 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Take care of yourself--lots of well wishes being sent your way!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Anonymous, 07:49:54 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Dear Raven,

You have my full support. I felt that I had to share this with you. I had a family member that had cancer on her heart and lung and here she is ten years later in full remission. She went to Sloan Kettering in Manhattan. They happen to be the best on the east coast. I know that it is hard, but if you go into this being optimistic it will help you tremendously get through it. The mind is a powerful thing. I just know that you are going to be all right and going to get through this. Sending you lots of love and thinking of you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Sandie, 07:56:41 09/26/11 Mon [1]

I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts, prayers and good energy are with you.

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[> Raven, i have known you for so many years, and I value you so very much! -- Vicki, 08:00:27 09/26/11 Mon [1]

You are such a wonderful person, and I consider myself so lucky that I "know" you even in such an abstract way. You have so many people who love you and who are totally in your corner rooting for you!

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[> I wish I could send Dr. David to hold your hand and cure you with his magic potions. -- Spideymom sending her love and prayers, 08:44:24 09/26/11 Mon [1]


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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Jo, 10:03:17 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Sending love and prayers your way.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Starlett, 10:57:00 09/26/11 Mon [1]

I saw the heading for your column and it never occurred to me that your health being at risk was its meaning. When I read you had breast cancer tears popped to my eyes. I quickly banished them and told myself "girl you are going to send nothing but positive thoughts to Raven". We (your fans and friends) are going to be forming an invisible "Hands Across The Nation" to envelope you in love, hope and a return to good health. We love you girl and WE KNOW YOU CAN BEAT THIS!

Forget about the column but whenever you feel up to it, please pop in and let us know how you are doing.

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[> TO ALL RAVEN READERS PLEASE READ -- Jonathan, 11:06:13 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Hi Everybody,

My name is Jonathan and we have all read the news about Raven.I suggest that we all come together and have a prayer session for Raven on this upcoming Sat at 12n Est 9 am Pst etc.IF we all pray at once for Ravens healing(and anyone else you know who needs healing) God will move to answer our prayers.I don't do facebook,so if someone could pass the message there that would be great.As we know there is strength in numbers,and God said if two or more agree it will be done,so lets get Raven healed.Thanks everyone.

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[> [> Re: TO ALL RAVEN READERS PLEASE READ -- Toni, 10:03:51 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Count me in I will join you at 12pm on Sat for a pray circle.

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[> [> Re: TO ALL RAVEN READERS PLEASE READ -- Eleanor Hubbard (Prayerfully Optimistic), 14:34:59 09/27/11 Tue [1]

I will be among those praying for Raven's healing Saturday at noon EST. I know from experience that prayer works, and I agree that Raven will be healed. Love you Ravenbeauty. Please take time to focus on yourself as you heal. We can wait for you.

Eleanor

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[> [> Re: TO ALL RAVEN READERS PLEASE READ -- Starlett, 11:38:26 09/28/11 Wed [1]

Count me in. I'll be joining the prayer circle @9am PST on Saturday.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Louise (hopeful), 11:36:47 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Raven, don't cry. You are not alone, the spirits of people who care about you are standing by your side, invisible yes, but the power they surround you with is strong. Take the bull by the horns and move forward. Don't falter in your determination to beat this disease. Envision God, smiling, standing on a cloud, his hand extended, pointing towards you, palm up. He blows on his hand and a powerful white healing light comes down from heaven and surrounds your body. You drawn in pure, healthy energy in every breath and expell toxic cells with every exhale. Positive thinking is one of your weapons to fight this disease. Faith, great doctors, knowledge and medications are others.


Positive Thinking Keeps you Healthy

"Scientists have demonstrated a connection between our body's immune system and our emotions. The one who is happy and content is less sick. Happy people are not sick as often, because positive thinking strengthens a specific region of the brain. And this region also affects the immune system positively. This was shown by a study with 52 participants by American scientists. This is so true. Watch funny movies, enjoy nature, read the posts from loving fans. Don’t let anything negative you hear about what happened to someone else or may be occurring in your own body affect your determination to get better. Miracles happen all the time."

Read about Lance Armstrong and his determination to beat cancer.

“Anything is possible. You can be told you have a 90-percent chance or a 50-percent chance or a 1-percent chance, but you have to believe, and you have to fight. By fight I mean arm yourself with all the available information, get second opinions, third opinions, and fourth opinions. Understand what has invaded your body, and what the possible cures are. It's another fact of cancer that the more informed and empowered patient has a better chance of long-term survival”
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http://www.shop.wearease.com/main.sc

post-mastectomy garments to wear to make you feel more comfortable about your appearance.

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http://www.stjudenovena.org/prayingthenovena.html
Pray to St. Jude. I can't tell you how many times I saw people posting thanks to St. Jude in the newspapers for prayers answered over the years.


Very Important:

After Treatment for Breast Cancer: Preventing Lymphedema read up on this. cancer.net

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http://www.plasticsurgery.org/reconstructive-procedures/breast-reconstruction.html


I saw a show about a year back where three woman had reconstructive surgery after their mastectomies and were very happy with the results.

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Read up on new drugs coming to market.

Bristol-Myers Squibb's BMS-247550 in Phase II and BMS-310705 in Phase I, Novartis's EPO-906 in Phase II, and Kosan Bioscience's epothilone D in Phase I."

From Roche:

http://in.reuters.com/article/2011/09/25/us-cancer-roche-tdm-idINTRE78N2W120110925

Data from a mid-stage clinical trial of the new combination drug, trastuzumab emtansine (T-DM1), in HER2-positive breast cancer found patients given T-DM1 had a 41 percent improvement in the time without their breast cancer worsening compared with those given trastuzumab, or Herceptin, plus chemotherapy.

Side effects were also significantly reduced in the T-DM1 group, a factor that was "particularly important and very clinically meaningful," said the study's lead investigator Sara Hurvitz, since far fewer T-DM1 patients opted to stop treatment during the phase II trial.

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Think about taking herbs or vitamin supplements.

One herb that is gaining attention in its ability to fight cancer is selenium. Take selenium as an effective antioxidant that will battle cancer-causing free radicals. Combine it with vitamin E for a boost in the immune system that can help the body fight against cancer cells

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Sometimes when I have a heavy heart before bedtime I imagine my guardian angels wings encasing me as I sleep.

God bless and BELIEVE.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- John B (Prayers & Good Wishes), 12:01:43 09/26/11 Mon [1]

I only found your column a short time ago, but I've been impressed by your caring and sharing. My mom is a 20+ year breast cancer survivor. Though her cancer had spread into her lymph nodes, she had been determined to beat it and her oncologist told her that attitude was 99% of the cure. From what I've seen, you are one strong woman and this column really proves that. Although you are in a very scary situation, take one day at a time, believe that God will take you by the hand and that you will beat it. There are many of us out here praying for you and that will continue for as long as you need it. Draw love and strength from all of us. It's always here for you. Take care of yourself and your needs and don't worry about anything else. May God help you every step of the way and please let us know how you're doing when you can. HUGS!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Marie (very sad), 12:07:52 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Raven, i only recently found your column and enjoy reading it very much. I pray and hope that everything goes to plan and you are okay. Will be thinking about you and hoping you are ok.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- BW, 17:24:54 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Also one of the "lurkers" who has enjoyed your column, and was very happy to see your return.

We will be prayer for you!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Linda, 22:39:29 09/26/11 Mon [1]

I am a fairly new follower, and I must say I already have a tremendous amount of respect and admiration for you. It was very brave of you to share this with us. I sincerely hope you can overcome this obstacle as you have in the past. Sending you my heartfelt best wishes.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Mitch (:((), 22:41:26 09/26/11 Mon [1]

Raven, I am so sorry to hear about all of this. I hope you are not in to much pain and my thoughts and many prayers are with you. Keep the fight going!!
xo
Mitch

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Angela, 00:26:33 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Raven,

Years ago I used to start my Saturday mornings with a mug of tea and your column. It was my favorite way to begin the weekend.

I'm very distressed to hear that the cancer has returned. If well wishes could cure you and add years to your life, you would live to be a 110!

Cancer sucks. Every type runs in my family, has claimed most of them and I always feel that I am living on borrowed time. But then, aren't we all? The really important part of life is to make use of the time that we DO have. And you have to know that you have made EXCELLENT use of yours. Not only for the humor and joy (and scoops!) that you have brought to your cyber fans over the years, but I can't imagine you being anything other than a GIFT to your family and friends.

So while I wish you love and courage through your journey, AND THAT YOU WILL BE CANCER FREE IN A VERY SHORT WHILE, what I wish for you most is wisdom and a peace beyond all understanding.

I'll be praying for you daily.

Angela

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- longtimefan79, 01:43:44 09/27/11 Tue [1]

You are the second person in as many days to share their cancer story with me. There are no words of comfort that I or anyone can give you that will help make the fear disappear. When my Dad was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer, we had a saying which I will now share with you. "You are not dying today. No one is guaranteed tomorrow. Take this challenge one minute, one moment, one breath at a time and God and family will see you through."

Know that you have thousands of fans thinking of you. The power of prayer is on your side. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray that God will give you the strength you need to battle through all that is to come.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Sheshoe, 02:08:51 09/27/11 Tue [1]

I am only a new reader (and a FB buddy!) - but still wanted to say I am sending all the healing, love and peacefully thoughts your way I can muster!!! Be strong (as you are) and take the time you need to get better!
Much love,
She

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Jojo, 02:55:56 09/27/11 Tue [1]

I am sorry to hear this news. I'm not a religious person so I can't offer you prayers but I will send you positive thoughts. You have a battle ahead of you but stay strong! It sounds like you have a good support group around you and that will be very beneficial to your recovery.

If possible please update how you are doing as you have a great following online that will want to know. But most importantly take care of yourself!!! Hugs!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- essde, 03:33:53 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Raven, I am one of your "lurkers" who has enjoyed your uniquely personalized column from way back in your pre "sabbatical" days. You are the steady friend I could always rely on to shoot from the hip right here online. I am truly devastated by the news of your diagnosis; however, I will not let our collective heavy hearts keep out the positive thoughts I'm sending your way...and I'll be sending them everyday. PLEASE STAY POSITIVE. KEEP AWAY FROM GLOOMDOOMERS, and God bless that doctor for his second look. We love you, girl.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- patsy, 04:08:04 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Thank you for all your info on inflammatory breast cancer. Many doctors do not recognize what is wrong with the patient until the cancer is so advanced. If we can inform people and save even one life, all is not lost. We have to be our own doctor/advocate whatever. In our country you must take your health in your own hands. Don't look back. My friend did everything right, masectomy everything and still the breast cancer returned in the same breast, this is also very unusual per her doctor. I have always enjoyed your info, your humor, and your love of our beloved soaps. God bless you. I will pray for you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- JT615, 04:13:17 09/27/11 Tue [1]

OMG! im terribly sorry to hear this. My prayers to you and your family! i have faith that you will weather this storm with grace! wishing you a speedy recovery.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Chloe, 06:12:15 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Raven, I've been lurking for years. You're a wonderful person and I pray for your complete recovery. Don't worry about the column one iota. Just concentrate on you. {{{HUGS}}}

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- GIna, 07:33:05 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Dear Raven,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You are a strong woman and must keep up the fight.
May God Bless and keep you in his sight and may you have many, many years of life ahead of you.

Gina

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Barbara, 07:56:54 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Wow, talk about putting things in perspective. Suddenly it doesn't matter to me at all if Sonny and Carly ever get back together. All the best wishes and prayers in the world for your good health.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Babygreen, 08:50:42 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Raven, you are brave beyond words. G-d bless you and good luck with your treatments.

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[> Tribute for Ravenbeauty on the air tonight! -- Lisa, 10:38:53 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Raven,

I don't know if you will see this in time, but they are planning a small tribute to you on Silas Kains radio show tonight. You have so many fans who love you. I hope you see that. I know you must be scared having to face this down again, but we will be there holding your hand. If you get a chance, have a listen and feel the love!

Hang in there!

SilasKainRadio

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH, 10:42:04 09/27/11 Tue [1]

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...I HOPE THAT YOU WILL PULL THROUGH THIS...KEEP UP YOUR STRENGTH AND REMAIN STRONG....TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF EVERYTHING ELSE IS SECONDARY....

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Toni, 11:53:49 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Hi Raven,

I have been reading your column for a couple of years and I really appreciate all you do for us. Don’t worry about the column right now, just take care of yourself and get well.

I want to thank you for letting us all know about Inflammatory Breast Cancer I have never heard of it before and I will tell all my family and friends about it.

Toni

Just wanted to say I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Dawn D aka shilo0854 (Hopeful and prayers), 13:31:39 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Ravin I'll say prayers and be hopeful that allso goes well with your surgery. Thank you for your work with getting us spoilers but your 1st priority is your help. We will all be here when you can come back. Keep the faith.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Daffodil (You are in my prayers), 19:18:00 09/27/11 Tue [1]

Raven, I have been a fan of your column for years. You seem like a great person and I am praying for you. I hope you are surrounded by friends and family, a good support system. I'm sorry you are going through these health issues. Love and luck to you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Daryl (Supportive), 00:22:43 09/28/11 Wed [1]

As a cancer survivor I can only say I am so sorry this nasty vile cancer has recurred ... personally I would get angry and stay angry, I really believe in directing this anger toward the cancer helps .. I am not saying its gonna make it all better I am just saying anger is a strong emotion and you need to use it and stay strong and know that you have the energy of many many people working for/with you while you do what the doctors say .. you can and you will beat this!!!!!!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Melissa, 03:38:43 09/28/11 Wed [1]

I have only started reading your column in the last year and have enjoyed the insite and information you have been able to provide to many of us long-time soap fans.
I have been a survivor for 17 years, and am always saddened by news such as yours. You are in my prayers and I am sending you strength to get through the next phases of your illness. Be strong, and cry when you have to!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Miriam Jablon, 04:29:46 09/28/11 Wed [1]

Raven, I am a five year survivor of Uterian and Ovarian cancer. I am also a very good friend of a woman who has inflammatory breast cancer. She has had a mastectomy, chemo and radiation. After almost two years, she is going strong. I don't know where you live but here in CA there are several great treatment centers, including, The City of Hope, UCLA and Cedars Sinai. I am at: miriamjablon@yahoo.com and would like to give you some suggestions, as I am a mentor here at the Todd Cancer Center here in Long Beach, CA. My prayers are with you. Miriam

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Sandi, 05:08:48 09/28/11 Wed [1]

Raven:
My thoughts and prayers will be with you through this struggle. Please don't feel that you have to write columns for us. The only thing I want from you is some of the weight of the burden. I can carry some for you. Blessings.
Sandi

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Allison, 09:00:52 09/28/11 Wed [1]

God bless you, Raven! Cancer is a horrible disease. It has touched my family in various forms over the years and I am saddened to hear you are stricken with it. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. I have faith that you will overcome this. You have a loyal legion of fans pulling for you. Good luck with your treatments. We all look forward to hearing about your progress. And no matter what happens, thank you for entertaining us all these years.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Gary, 10:17:42 09/28/11 Wed [1]

I must say bless you! I am a male who has experienced the other side of breast cancer. I lost My wife to breast cancer two years ago at the age of 35. I want to let you know that you are in my prayers and I stand by you. My family and I do the Breast cancer walk ever year. God bless

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Kyle, 11:45:00 09/28/11 Wed [1]

You are probably the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life (and I've seen plenty). It was wonderful to find that you are even more beautiful from the inside out. I have never seen a columnist with this many fans. You have an army on your side. A virtual army of fans who adore and respect you. This is why there is so much jealousy out there towards you. Look around you. Everyone is pulling for you to make it. You have a tough battle ahead but your fans are even tougher. You can lean on us. We love you. Make your mother proud and fight this thing with everything you have. You can do it. You have a light inside you that is very rare. Tap into that light and leave the darkness behind. Let it heal you precious one.

Love always,
Kyle

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- mamajj, 11:50:27 09/28/11 Wed [1]

I have been reading your column for a while now. Never posted but I am so sorry to hear you are sick. I wish you all the luck in the world for a speedy recovery. You do what you have to do to get better & we will be waiting here for you when you come home.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- DarkShadows, 17:58:58 09/28/11 Wed [1]

Oh Raven, what terrible news. Don't worry about this column. Go take care of yourself. My thoughts and prayers are with you. You'll come through this like a champ.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- catshadowi8, 06:40:52 09/29/11 Thu [1]

My heart aches for you and the impossible choices you now face. As so many before me have said, make sure you take care of yourself FIRST. Everything and everyone else comes second.

Sending my hopes and prayers out to you,
catshadowsi8

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- xaristia, 12:34:05 09/29/11 Thu [1]

My thoughts and prayers are with you Raven.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- JLC7930, 02:49:19 09/30/11 Fri [1]

Raven, you are an even better person than I thought. Here you are battling the scariest thing I could imagine and yet you are apologizing to us for missing a column or two. You are amazing. You should not be worried about us or the soaps. This is the time for you to focus on you and your health and life. We will be here waiting for you, supporting you, and praying for you.
Julie

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Rachelle, 06:13:39 09/30/11 Fri [1]

Dear Raven, I am one of your long time lurkers, I just wanted to convey my sorry. Remember this, any and everything is possible with God! When doctors say one thing God says another. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Chontil, 02:29:54 10/01/11 Sat [1]

Raven, I am so sorry to hear about this. I will keep you in my prayers. Take care of yourself. We appreciate and love the columns, but life is so dear.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- scyren, 07:41:10 10/01/11 Sat [1]

Will keep you in my prayers. Sorry you have to go through this! Sending healing thoughts for a hopefully fast recovery. Have faith!!! You can beat this!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Judith, 23:37:43 10/01/11 Sat [1]

Dear Raven,

I am so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. Stay strong. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I will continue to think of you with positive thoughts and vibes coming your way.

I send this with love. Thank you for always thinking of your readers, your fans, even through your trying times. You are a beautiful person inside and out. xoxoxo

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Kira, 07:45:27 10/03/11 Mon [1]

Sorry to take so long to catch up on things but Raven, you will absolutely be in my thoughts and prayers. Sorry to hear the news. You already know that we, your faithful long time readers (like me) as well as the newer faithful readers, are all here for you! Stay strong and keep faith!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Kelly, 07:17:36 10/05/11 Wed [1]

Hi Raven,
Just wanted to say that I'm praying for you. I used to work in a physical therapy office and my boss specialized in lymphedema therapy and she treated a lot of women with breast cancer, so I got to meet plenty of special women while I was working there. You have a lot of support here and we wish you nothing but the best!!! You're in my thoughts and prayers!!!

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Rosie Peat, 14:07:57 10/05/11 Wed [1]

Raven, really sorry to read about your illness. Sending prayers and good thoughts your way and hopes for a full recovery.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Fy'Ma (Prayerful), 14:34:38 10/06/11 Thu [1]

I'm a newbie, but I certainly enjoy your scoops. Please don't concern yourself with getting us information, please put all of your energies on getting thru this next season of your life. Your journey has and will touch the lives of many. Many prayers for God's healing to be upon you. Stay strong and positive. '...may endure for a night, but Joy comes in the morning." God Bless you and your family/friends as they go thru this with you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Ravenbeauty, 15:30:13 10/06/11 Thu [1]

I am truly blessed to have such lovely readers and friends out here. Believe me when I say that each and every post has touched me deeply. You guys are amazing. I know that you all have troubles of your own and yet you have gone out of your way to be so incredibly loving and supportive. I will never forget the love you have shown me here during this dark time in my life. I mean that sincerely. The outpouring here and at Facebook has had me in tears many times over during the past couple of weeks.

For those of you not on my Facebook page, I just received news on my PET Scan, so I will share here as well. They see focal activity in my spleen, liver, and in the T10 section of my spine (very mild on T10). They are on the fence as to whether this is metastatic cancer or inflammation from my body fighting off the cancer in my breasts. They know this type of rare cancer (Epitheloid Angiosarcoma) usually goes to the lungs first. I won't do chemo either way. It's a gray area for now (will repeat PET after surgery). They are trying to get me a rush date for surgery right now because it is visibly spreading on my left breast. We need to get to that first and quickly before it manifests in my lungs. Will keep you posted. Just trying to remain calm here (failing miserably, but doing the best I can). Your love and support has meant more to me than you will ever know.

I was deeply touched to find that you guys began a fund in my honor through the Susan Komen Foundation. All of that money will go to breast cancer research and may help our future generations to beat this thing once and for all. I am going to try and fight this with everything I have, and your prayers and incredible support has given me strength to do just that. ♥

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Sonya, 01:04:14 10/07/11 Fri [1]

Yes Raven! You keep fighting while we all keep praying!!! *BEARHUGS*

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Quiet Reader, 07:04:28 10/07/11 Fri [1]

Thanks for the update. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- PEARLMARTO, 03:21:06 10/08/11 Sat [1]

Hey Raven, I don't usually post on these boards. I usually just read them, but when I read what you are going through I couldn't help but cry for you. Keep fighting Raven and don't give up. You are in my prayers.

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[> [> Thanks for updating, Raven. -- LAwoman, 13:02:35 10/08/11 Sat [1]

I love you so much. Keep being positive and we'll all be positive with you. Feel the love, it's around you in abundance.

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[> [> Prayers your way. You can beat this. I am a 19 yr survivor. -- llewmark, 18:54:25 10/08/11 Sat [1]


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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- AllyG, 03:23:02 10/09/11 Sun [1]

Raven you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have followed your columns for years and always enjoy what you have to say. As you can see there are a legion of fans pulling for you. Stay strong,

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Stacey Logan (teary eyed), 18:17:43 10/09/11 Sun [1]

Just know you are on my mind & in my prayers. If you have a chance to check your Facebook messages, please let me know if the information I sent you is helpful and/or an avenue you may want to explore. As a 12 year survivor of Stage IIc/IIIa BC, I have met a few survivors of inflammatory breast cancer; one woman had 4 recurrences over a 20 year period. There's no reason why you can't be one of the miracles in the small percentage with longevity. Try & keep the faith, and at times when it's too much, know there are so many of us lifting you up & sending you positive energy. As mentioned in my other reply, please don't hesitate if there's anything I can do to help.

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[> [> Thanks for the update, Ravey. We love you! -- Vicki, 23:00:46 10/10/11 Mon [1]

Our prayers and positive vibes for you are continuing.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Chloe, 14:41:34 10/12/11 Wed [1]

We will remain ever vigilant, hopeful, and prayerful for your health and strength.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Debbie Johnson, 01:14:00 10/07/11 Fri [1]

You are in my prayers. I wish you all they blessing and
will pray for you speedy recovery.

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- Stacey Logan, 17:59:25 10/09/11 Sun [1]

From one fellow cancer warrior to another, you are in my thoughts and prayers. When you have a chance, please check Facebook messages; I've sent you a few, hopefully with some helpful info. Please feel free to contact me at my email address; I won't give out contact info on Facebook (other than email address). I'm hoping I can help you out. Dana-Farber in Boston HAS a program for women with Inflammatory Breast Cancer. Please read your messages for more info regarding that & don't hesitate to reach out for help. May God bless you.

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[> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- stampurr, 10:08:17 10/10/11 Mon [1]

Oh Raven! My thoughts and prayers are definitely with you. I remember you back in the beginning - you were one of the posters who inspired me to register and start spreading my opinion. I love your column, I love you and I'm holding you in my thoughts. Get well my friend!

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[> [> Re: A column of a different kind.......... -- rapido (Hang in there), 08:04:51 10/12/11 Wed [1]

Raven, you are the best, taking time to update us. I don't know where you live but there are specialists all over the country working miracles every day. My good friend is doing well after stage 3 inflammatory breast cancer, diagnosed 3 years ago. There is hope. Love to you.

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