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Date Posted: 18:20:43 05/26/05 Thu
In reply to: 's message, "Re: Does this make any sense?" on 01:32:46 05/24/05 Tue
Yes, I remember the few good days along with many bad ones after losing my sister and then my brother. My sister died when I was young over 30 years ago and my brother died over six years ago. Now I have mostly good days, but I do still have flashes of grief at times like their birthdays and death days.
Trust me, you will never forget your brother. It is hard not to feel guilty when you are having a good day and then remember that he is gone. Please remember that your brother would want you to be happy. It takes time to be okay, but keep seeing someone. Talking about your loss will help you. Write again when you feel like it and let me know how you are doing.
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Date Posted: 14:26:44 05/01/06 Mon
I totally understand what you are going through. On Jan 2,2000. I lost my older sister suddenly she was only 26 years old. I also lost my brother Feb 2, 2006 suddenly. I have ok days and real bad days. The police still don't know if it was suicide or murder for my brother. My son is 5 will be 6 in july he is having nighmares about his uncle, he never got to meet his aunt. When something does seem to go good in my life i feel guilty if i actually allow myself to enjoy it. I just try to put my faith in God and ask for his help EVERYDAY!!
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