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Subject: To many accidents

Author: Emily (Depressed)

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:02:13 08/04/06 Fri 3years ago i lost my grandmother in a car wreck, My mom has been in two serious vehicle accidents (she broke her neck in one and her back in another), my little brother wrecked on a moterbike and spend 4 days in ICU and a week in pediatrics, and My 21 year old brother was just killed July 11th 2006 in a motercycle accident. He slammed into a pole and it killed him instantly. I live 1200 miles away from all my family and go to college. I feel like i should have been there for my family that night and i wasn't, i had to sit by myself scream. I am only 20 and he was my only real brother. Me and him did everything together growing up and i would have never expected to see my brother dead. First at his funeral i wasn't going to look at him but i felt like if i didn't look i would regret i later in life and always wonder. I still hasn't hit and now i am back away from my family and feel like i have no one to talk to. My whole life my dad and grandpa were upsessed about my brother, to them girls weren't important. Now that he is gone they have tryed to get me back but i just want them to leave me alone. My dad has appologised to me for this but i am still distant. My whole body aches and my head hurts, i don't drink and i don't do any drug besides coffee. All i want is someone who can relate and i was very happy to find this site. I have a wonderful mom and step dad, i think they help but know one really understands the relationship between siblings. Except all of you!! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: To many accidents

Author: Pleasant [ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 19:15:01 08/07/06 Mon Dear Emily, You have been through a terrible time, and not being there has made it harder for you. I am glad that you are reaching out and trying to find others who understand. Hopefully, you will get through this and come out of it a stronger person, able to help others. Please come back and let us know how you are doing. Meanwhile, spend some time taking care of yourself. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]