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Subject: Not my plan


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Peg (In shock)
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Date Posted: 00:53:15 05/01/07 Tue
 My sister and I are only 18 mts. apart in age and I was told 2 days ago that she has incurable liver cancer. Our lives together keeps flashing in front of my eyes - laughing, crying, the two of us fighting everyone else, the two of us losing to everyone else, our angers, our triumphs...our future plans. She was the one who cried when we got shots, she was the one who cried at scary movies, she was the one who cried when the goldfish died even though I had been the only one that took care of it, and now, the thought of her fear is breaking my heart. She is a good person and has been a fine companion. Please pray for her and me. I really want to take this horrible experience and make a positive experience out of it so I can always say she was the best big sister that ever was and even death couldn't change that.
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Pleasant
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Date Posted: 15:58:50 05/03/07 Thu
Dear Peg, in shock,
Sometimes the siblings are the only ones who are close enough and strong enough to stick out the dying process. She will need someone to be with her, to be willing to talk about it, and not run away from the pain.
Your post touched my heart because you described what it was like for me when my 13 year old sister died from cancer when I was 15. There is a part of you going through that experience too. But please keep in mind that a part of her will always live on with you.

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