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Date Posted: 21:11:05 05/10/07 Thu

My only sister died from bulimia February 12, 2007. We did not know it until it was to late. I loved her so much. She had just turned 35 December 20th. She had two children. a son 15 and a daughter 12. They have also been having a hard time. She hid it so well. Divine Caroline.com just published her story last week. I seen errors on it and can not even get a hold of them to fix it. But if you would like to read about things that happened to her you can go there.
I have not been dealing with her loss at all. My family does not know that I have not been dealing with it, because I don't want anyone to be upset more than they already are.
We're also dealing with dad, he has lung cancer. So that is making even harder. The doctor said in December that it was incurable. We went Monday to get more scans to see what the cancer is doing.
I'm afraid if he finds it has got worse, he may do something. It is like he does not want to go on since she is gone. He had mentioned something before,but I told him I needed him too.

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Date Posted: 05:44:28 05/27/07 Sun

I'm so sorry that you are going through so much right now. I think it seems like that sometimes, that everything happens at once. It must have been a shock when your sister died. But please hang in there--in time things will get better.

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Date Posted: 14:01:40 06/26/09 Fri

I totally understand where you are coming from about not letting your family know you are not dealing with the loss. I lost my only sister just 8 months ago and it has been so very hard for me. I have not let on to my family how hard it has been either. But you do need to deal with the loss. I suggest that if you have a friend or a cousin or anyone you can trust who may have already gone through this to talk to them. I have a cousin who lost a brother a few years ago and I have been talking to him. He has been a tremendous help. It is still very hard but I promise it will help.

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