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] Date Posted: 20:58:07 04/13/08 Sun In reply to: Katie 's message, "Left Behind" on 16:43:57 02/20/08 Wed Hi, I lost my only sister almost 2 years ago from congestive heart failure. I found her. She died in her sleep. I cannot even describe the pain that I have been through. I can't stand to really be around people anymore. I have to put on a game face at work, and by the days end, I'm exhausted. My husband completely ignores me going through my grief. He claims he don't know what to say. I have been mad at him for 2 years cause he just hasn't been there for me emotionally, then wants me to have sex with him. Anyone else's husband reacts the same way? I don't have what you would call friends, only associates. So, I'm alone a lot, and I have flashbacks from finding her all the time. I have been to a therapist, that didn't help me. I have been to grief counseling at church. That didnt help. I have tried reading bible scriptures. I never feel at peace. I'm always wound up, because I'm angry that I have to go through this alone. My mom is in another state. She and I talk everyday, and some days I don't even want to talk to her or anyone. My sis and I were very close. I cry almost everyday. And I constantly dream about her. Some days I don't want to go on. I am hurting so bad, and I'm so alone......I found this board just surfing. I send out condolences to everyone on here that has lost someone. The doctor tried putting me on anti depressants, and that didnt work either. I have no kids. I seriously need help... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Date Posted: 07:03:15 09/09/08 Tue I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband and his family were a total hindrance, I grieved alone and made it through anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: joycie (on an emotional roller coaster ride) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:21:52 11/14/09 Sat dearest andrea this sight is all new to me i just lost my sweet sister shirley jean three weeks ago .ten days later my big brother died as well way too much in a month both were batteling with cancer both were strong didnt complain Im so proud to be their sister its certainly ok to cry proves loyalty i know youre heart is heavy with pain my husband thinks im being childish if i cry its difficult to act as if nothing has happened. I cant even deal with his bull t ,right now i ask uor lord to give me strength everyday my anxiety is haywire medication Ativan is the only thing that helps me deal with all this sadness stay strong Bless you! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: andrea [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:47:21 09/11/08 Thu hi, i have the exact situation you are in. my husband and i are total strangers now and it has been 7 months since i lost my sister. he doesn't know what to say or how to act. i cry constantly for my sister. she was my best friend. i am so alone, its painful. i am on anti-anxiety pills, which help somewhat. andrea [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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