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] Date Posted: 20:58:07 04/13/08 Sun In reply to: Katie 's message, "Left Behind" on 16:43:57 02/20/08 Wed Hi, I lost my only sister almost 2 years ago from congestive heart failure. I found her. She died in her sleep. I cannot even describe the pain that I have been through. I can't stand to really be around people anymore. I have to put on a game face at work, and by the days end, I'm exhausted. My husband completely ignores me going through my grief. He claims he don't know what to say. I have been mad at him for 2 years cause he just hasn't been there for me emotionally, then wants me to have sex with him. Anyone else's husband reacts the same way? I don't have what you would call friends, only associates. So, I'm alone a lot, and I have flashbacks from finding her all the time. I have been to a therapist, that didn't help me. I have been to grief counseling at church. That didnt help. I have tried reading bible scriptures. I never feel at peace. I'm always wound up, because I'm angry that I have to go through this alone. My mom is in another state. She and I talk everyday, and some days I don't even want to talk to her or anyone. My sis and I were very close. I cry almost everyday. And I constantly dream about her. Some days I don't want to go on. I am hurting so bad, and I'm so alone......I found this board just surfing. I send out condolences to everyone on here that has lost someone. The doctor tried putting me on anti depressants, and that didnt work either. I have no kids. I seriously need help... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: No name [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 07:03:15 09/09/08 Tue I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband and his family were a total hindrance, I grieved alone and made it through anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: joycie (on an emotional roller coaster ride) [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 19:21:52 11/14/09 Sat dearest andrea this sight is all new to me i just lost my sweet sister shirley jean three weeks ago .ten days later my big brother died as well way too much in a month both were batteling with cancer both were strong didnt complain Im so proud to be their sister its certainly ok to cry proves loyalty i know youre heart is heavy with pain my husband thinks im being childish if i cry its difficult to act as if nothing has happened. I cant even deal with his bull t ,right now i ask uor lord to give me strength everyday my anxiety is haywire medication Ativan is the only thing that helps me deal with all this sadness stay strong Bless you! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: andrea [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 14:47:21 09/11/08 Thu hi, i have the exact situation you are in. my husband and i are total strangers now and it has been 7 months since i lost my sister. he doesn't know what to say or how to act. i cry constantly for my sister. she was my best friend. i am so alone, its painful. i am on anti-anxiety pills, which help somewhat. andrea [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: ann (understand) [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 21:19:54 11/29/09 Sun I can relate to what you are feeling andrea. I lost my sister in Aug (cancer) she was so brave and put up a valiant fight. You should try to think of waht your sister would have wanted for you. I am sure she would be unhappy if you can't communicate with your husband even though it sounds like he is standing by you. He does not want to do the wrong thing so it may seem like he is doing nothing. My sis and I talked almost every day we had kids the same age, we partied together, we were totally best friends. I love her kidsand want to be strong but honestly I feel so angry that she is gone, and then get guilty when I pick out other people I think would make life better for everyone if they were dead instead of her. I also was sad because of her illness I couldn't talk to her about "my" problems or worries . It left a big void of someone who always understood me. that what we both miss for sure. I know this is strange but I don't feel she left me I feel colon cancer "took her" and that for sure sucks. I am sorry I don't know if this helped, if you need to talk I will listen I wish you the best , and hope we can get through the holidays with out bringing other people we love down. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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