Create a New Forum Owner Login Contribute & Create Your Member account VoyUser Login (see contribute) VoyForums Directory/Categories No-ads: Completely remove ads from your forum VoyForums Homepage VoyForums News Help Desk VoyForums Exchange FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions Search VoyForums

[ VoyUser Login optional ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1 ]

Subject: Re: missing my sister

Author: No name

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 22:00:04 10/31/08 Fri In reply to: Mary 's message, "Re: missing my sister" on 19:17:03 10/30/08 Thu Hi thanks for your encouraging words. i do feel her with me--part of me now...it's just that it's a different life--almost like losing one of my five senses but gettiing another one to compensate.. for example i was having a really bad day yesterday--being really argumentative with my spouse-- i was angry and not sure why...not that isn't true i was angry because i still have her items in boxes and i was trying to figure out what i was going to do with them-- part of me thought--is it time to sort and get rid of her things? she is such a pack rat-- i would tell her this all the time--so i managed to toss somethings and keep others-- i still have one box to do.. then i was throwing away old xmas boxes (after arguing with my spouse about HIS clutter) and then a box that she have given me for a xmas present fell out of the other boxes.. the tag had her handwriting (very neat)To giovanni from rosanne felt like she was telling me, "cut him some slack, don't be so hard on him" she always knew how to settle me down.. and i cried some more over this box..and thanking God for this sign.. the box is still there... not sure when i will throw it away.... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Replies:

[> [> [> Subject: Re: missing my sister
Author: Mary [Edit]	Date Posted: 00:58:42 11/01/08 Sat Isn't it amazing how evocative handwriting is? I saw my mom's handwriting ten years after she died, and just burst into tears! Seems like your task of sorting out her things is helping you sort out your feelings too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]