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Subject: Re: just needing someone to talk to...

Author: Donna (drugged out)

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 20:51:12 01/09/10 Sat In reply to: Katey 's message, "just needing someone to talk to..." on 11:04:34 01/06/10 Wed I read your posting. My condolences to you. To my horror my sister, younger, died in her sleep of congestive heart failure. It has been one year and I numb myself with narcotics or anything because I cannot get over it. I cry every day. Sisters are so special. You can tell them anything, they never judge, you laugh, eat too much, talk about sex, etc. and then she left me. I feel so abandoned. Two years you are a long way from any relief. I also had just lost my brother to a fall, and my husband to heart failure all in 12 months. I feel like a zombie, do you? At least you have school. You need to talk about it, all of it and a non person can really relate because you can put it all out there. My mother won't talk about her either. I am crying now. I so feel your pain. Why do they have to leave us, well, I guess only God knows. write if you want. I WILL respond. Tell me about her and what she meant to you and others. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: just needing someone to talk to...

Author: Lauren (broken) [ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 15:18:33 06/19/10 Sat I can definitely relate....I lost my younger brother and my only sibling (he was 29 and I 32) on March 13, 2010 to cancer. He was diagnosed on Feb 10, 2010 and was given one month to live. So they sent him home from the hospital to die. I lived 8 hours away, so I spent the entire month with him in his apartment watching him deteriorate and die. Because of this, I lost my job, I moved, finally got a new job, lost my car and don't have enough money to get another due to being out of work. I am having a hard time going over that month in my mind. I know I need therapy but it's hard when you don't have a car. Very few people understand and of those who understand, none of them have lost a sibling so they can't REALLY relate. I'm angry, I'm sad, I'm guilty and having a hard time with the whole experience. If you ever need someone to talk to - I'm here! I think it would be helpful to talk to someone who is "in the same boat". I hope things are getting "better" and that you and your family are together in this. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]