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Subject: Dilemas


Author:
permandi
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Date Posted: 15/10/07 20:51
 Hi all, oh what a day, not one of my best. My new job is in an aquatics centre, I work 90% of the time in the fish room, tropicals, cold water and marines. Today I lost four fish, basicly due to my lack of understanding and being on my own in three different areas. I feel awful about it and will do for ages. Have quite a problem with the ethical issue that a large proportion of tropicals and approx 98% of marines are wild caught and although the marine losses aren't enormous, its still a loss. Mind you the tropical death count can and often is horrendous. Don't know whether to hang in there and try and do the best I can for those that come in or look somewhere else.
That coupled with the fact that I can't decide whether I'm gay or bisexual doesn't help either. It's hard enough finding a fella let alone a female, have no idea where to look anyway, ideally she'd be a pagan too. Tall order eh!
Oh decisions, decisions!!!
Any views welcome, positive or negative.
Blessings to all.
Permandi x
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[> Subject: Re: Dilemas


Author:
sam spaniel
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Date Posted: 15/10/07 22:22
Oh Permandi!!

i'd say hang in there in both respects..... once you get to know your new job you will begin to feel more confident, and as far as sexuality goes, just stop looking for answers and they will come to you hun x
blessings
and
huggz
love
sam xxx

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[> Subject: Re: Dilemas


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paganwolf
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Date Posted: 19/10/07 10:55
remember, the impossible we do at once, miracles a tad longer.

My advice is stop wanting everyhting right now, it would only cloud the issue, have a little faith and everything will come to you.

mitakuye oyasin

Paganwolf )0(

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[> Subject: Re: Dilemas


Author:
Earth-Fire
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Date Posted: 19/10/07 12:41
Arhhhh hunny sorry about your job, :( must of been really gutting.
As for the Boy or Gal thing, don't see why you can't like both there's no law to say you must choice one or the other and if there was well b*gger that lol. Don't label your self.

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[> Subject: Re: Dilemas


Author:
permandi
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Date Posted: 19/10/07 18:46
Hi all, thanks for all the replies. More new fish in this week and heaps of deads as usual. So depressing but not my fault this time. Joys if the pet trade I suppose. As for the boy or gal bit, I'll just have to be patient and see what happens, I wish they sold patience along with will- power and self esteem at tesco's!! Be worth a fortune!
Ta muchly all.
Blessings
Permandi

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