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Subject: 快樂與不快樂其實只是一份執著。


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Date Posted: 17:39:31 08/20/01 Mon
In reply to: 甘甘 's message, "花開堪折直須折" on 10:35:01 08/19/01 Sun

快樂的時候自要盡情享受,不快樂的時候低沉亦無可厚非。但是,其實無論快樂與不快樂都只是個過程,像上山的路總有上坡亦有下坡,只要你往前走,總會到達山頂。平心靜氣地走路,會看到更多。即使痛苦的事,亦會令我們獲益良多。這樣說可能有點阿Q —— 其實阿Q是愚昧還是大智若愚,誰知道?我只覺得,我們(何能只是我)有時太「害怕」不愉快的事,其實事情真的要發生,誰也阻止不了。然而真的發生後,卻又沒有甚麼大不了,自己亦未見得不能應付。如果你覺得自己不能應付,那便未免太看扁自己了。反正事情總會過去,開心的事會過去,不開心的事也會過去。那不是很好嗎?事情要不能結束,才真的叫人沁一把汗。有時候遇著不如意的事,我會告訴自己:「事情總會過去。很快,我便知道,我又走過來了﹗」我也滿懂得騙自己的,有時候不愉快的事情還未過去,便已預支安渡難關之後的喜悅﹗有時候又會想,反正事情總會過去,好一點壞一點其實分別不大,盡力而為,結果如何也不必介意。

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