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Date Posted: 11:12:01 11/07/09 Sat
Author: Theresa
Subject: Can I be qualified as a Cougar at 33? If so, that's scary!!! Not too huge on playing the field because I am very very very picky! Rule 1, no mindless idiots who can't think for themselves!
In reply to: mj 's message, "Oh, no doubt -- with the whole emphasis, on 'cougars' today, you could probably 'practice' quite alot, with young, virile, studly subjects before you fulfill a very do-able life ambition! But be very picky -- very very picky!!" on 02:38:02 11/07/09 Sat


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[> [> [> [> You are NOT a cougar -- you're just getting started! You probably know now what you really want in a relationship, even if, and especially perhaps, after coming out of one that didn't work. I married for the first and only time when I was 31 y.o. and the only reason I didn't marry the guy who I gave 5 years of my life to, prior to meeting my husband, is because he dilly-dallied around and left me hanging all the time. In my utter stupidity, I would have married him weeks after we met if he would have asked me. inside -- mj, 12:57:05 11/07/09 Sat [1]

When I met my husband and realized he was the type of man who I respected and admired, in addition to attraction -- I knew it was totally different than anything I previously thought it would be. I was at a point in my life where I was not looking for a man to make me happy or 'complete'. I was concentrating on my career and building my own life and finding ways to contribute to the community and to the world around me and beyond. After I had started seeing my husband for a few months, the other guy THEN pursued me relentlessly and even asked me to marry him!!! Go figure.

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