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Date Posted: 10:33:13 12/10/03 Wed
Author: Karen
Subject: Re: I promised her everything would be fine...
In reply to: trish quinton 's message, "I promised her everything would be fine..." on 05:04:23 12/10/03 Wed

Hi,
I recently lost a 15 year old siamese and I know what it means to second guess choices that one makes. As humans we are not able to foresee the future. You did everything right for your little one. It was her time to leave and she left in her way. This was her destiny. Although it's very painful, we don't always get to make choices that go as we want. In fact, it seems as if life seldom goes that way. She knew everyday that you loved her and she is no longer in pain. Her spirit is light and happy without the confines of a dying physical form. The first few weeks after losing a pet are so difficult. It's hard to focus at work; it's hard to stop crying. It's hard to see joy and happiness around you. My Kudo died November 3rd and I still have moments sneak up on me when I just start sobbing. Interestingly enough, I feel closest to him when I'm crying. Maybe his sweet spirit is with me to help me through the sadness. Be gentle with yourself in these first few weeks;they are not easy days. Your baby was blessed to find such a loving home;you were blessed to be loved by such a special little one. Karen

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  • Re: I promised her everything would be fine... -- sarah, 22:59:20 12/10/03 Wed
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