| Subject: Hello my sweet Globette. I am sorry you are hurting. The reason you cannot stop this person from hurting you from lies and doubt is because lies and doubt are painful places. #2, you are not powerful enough to change a person. It sounds to me that his "norm" is to lie, rather than live in truth. There are many reasons why people lie, (more than we can discuss here), but the bottom line is that the trust in the relationship has been broken. I recommend that you phone me directly at the office. You know the number.... |
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Dr. Tracy
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Date Posted: 08:03:34 03/05/07 Mon
In reply to:
Globette
's message, "very tired." on 14:50:03 02/28/07 Wed
>I am at a very low point in my life right now, and am
>very tired of fighting for a relationship that
>continues to produce lies from my husband. Right
>living and "The courage to say no more" have done alot
>for me. I feel like I am a stronger person, but why
>can't I stop the person I love from hurting me with
>lies and doubt? My heart wants to be so much more
>dedicated to the purpose WIN has brought into my life,
>but I am now broken and dont have much more to give at
>this point.
>Here's my story, short version. I never paid much
>attention to our finances because my husband makes
>enough to support a family of five. My mistake. When I
>did (after right living) I uncoverd a huge pill
>addiction. It didnt stop there. After then is where
>all the lies come in. The financial abuse has been so
>severe now we have to file bankruptcy. Trying to go
>with out things, to try and make ends meet, he has
>not. We went to counseling for a while, but the cost
>is high when you have no money.
>Apparently the addiction is kicked, but that wasnt the
>end of it. A few weeks ago I find out that he owed a
>"loan shark" a few thousand dollars and that is why
>the money manipulation has been there since the rest
>had come out.
>The problem with this all is, my love hasnt been the
>issue, I have loved him almost since the first time i
>met him. Yes there has been contamination to our
>realtionship for a very long time, we all make
>mistakes. When do the mistakes and childish lies come
>to an end.
>I have tried so hard to make this marriage a unity and
>I feel like a failure, I've never been a quitter.
>The last time I was happy was when I was with my globe
>sisters. My heart is so heavy and my smile is replaced
>with tears. Please I need some encouragement. Much
>love.
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