| Subject: Hi Vanessa. The question that comes to mind is why do you feel like a prisoner? You are not caged, so something is making you stay. He might be happy in the relationship and has no intention of leaving. You however are not. You cannot expect him to make a move that you want for your life. That is not taking responsibility. So examine why you stay and remember that you cannot control anyone's life but your own. That includes hoping that he will leave to end YOUR pain. Hope this helps. |
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Dr. Tracy Kemble
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Date Posted: 19:09:08 04/03/07 Tue
In reply to:
Vanessa
's message, "How often do they actually leave?" on 17:14:21 03/11/07 Sun
>He keeps saying "well I'm just going to get my things
>and find a place to
>stay."....waiting...waiting...waiting. He travels for
>his work 3 to 4 nights a week but you can feel a pall
>settle over the house when it's time for him to come
>home and I hate to see weekends coming because the
>stress is maddening. He comes back in after his travel
>like nothing has been done or said!! I am totally
>confused!!! I am trying to find someway out of here or
>I am going to flip because I get the feeling he ain't
>gonna' budge. How often do they really go? HELP!!
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