| Subject: Hi Brittany. My sweet child, you are in an abusive relationship. There is a story. You put a frog in boiling water and the frog will jump out to save its life. You put a frog in luck warm water and guess what? It will die... Why? Because it lost the ability to sense danger. Right now, you still can sense danger. So please seek help. Find a counselor in your area. Join the on line classes. BUT, do not think it will get better. His history is showing his future. He is slowly breaking your wings so you can't fly. But you were meant to fly. So get some help Brittany. We are here for you... |
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Dr. Tracy Kemble
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Date Posted: 20:49:22 04/03/07 Tue
In reply to:
Brittany
's message, "I REALLY REALLY NEED ADVICE" on 14:44:51 03/30/07 Fri
>Hello. Im brittany, 22 yrs old. I have been with my
>boyfriend for 2 years now. For the first year things
>were pretty good, but the past year has been hell for
>me. I am really starting to believe I am crazy, or I
>am the wrong one. My boyfriend and I get into
>arguments over everything. He screams at me alot, and
>its always my fault. he has called me a cracker,
>whore, slut, cunt, stupid bicth. His favorite is "are
>you dumb or are you stupid?" Over the past year I have
>developed anxiety and panic attacks. I used to be
>happy, now the only thing I get excited about is
>shopping and getting away. I wasnt able to take a job
>because there were too many guys working there. there
>is sooo much i dont really no where to begin or stop.
>I cry alot. When he hurts my feelings by screaming at
>me or calling me names, i cry. he has mocked me crying
>a few times, and laughed at me for crying. he says i
>cry too much and its annoying. this hurts so much.
>and told me he would only talk to me if i stooped
>crying and shutup. he says im controlling (i just want
>to know what time he is going to be home) and i am
>selfish. he smokes weed all day. i feel like i know i
>am better but i am soooooooo scared of change- where
>would i live? How would i pay everything? (he racked
>up about 4,000 on my credit cards and he threatens me
>that he wont pay it off whenever we argue) i do love
>him- but why? I am very smart. I know i am. I come
>from a fantastic family and have had a great life up
>untill a couple years ago. he is mean and cold
>hearted.he has never hit me- but he has grabbed my
>arm, pushed my chair over,dumped beer on my head, and
>thrown things at me. I try to tell its not right and i
>want him to stop getting so angry but he always says
>its because of me why he gets so mad. I really really
>have never dome anything bad to him. I feel like i am
>a good girlfriend. i am a loving, caring, smart
>person. He makes me feel soooo guilty. I must have
>done somthing ! I am scared and confused. he always
>has a way of MAKING HIS BEHAVIOR SEEM LIKE ITS NOT A
>BIG DEAL AND ANY GUY WOULD REACT THIS WAY IF THEY HAD
>TO DEAL WITH ME. he wont let me trade in my truck for
>a car- because he WILL NOT drive a car. and if i trade
>it in- "somthing bad will happen" Please guys, i need
>to talk to someone, i talk to my family some but not
>to this extent- i know they would kill him. Thanks for
>reading this. Just to let anyone know, in the past two
>years i went from a happy outgoing carefree girl with
>tons of friends and hobbies to an anxiety ridden,
>underweight stress case with no friends really, and
>not one hobby I like. Please help! I need a "friend"
>Brittany
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