| Subject: Hi Shannon. Thanks for the post. A few thoughts. #1: Anger is a sign that something is wrong. That is why you are a boiling pot of rage. Being in a relationship where you are denied your rights will make you angry. With that said, it is important to realize, this is how the cycle of abuse continues. With abuse, you either learn to give it or take it. It is important that you get into healing so that you do not hurt yourself or someone else. #2: Don't get ahead of yourself by worrying about what might happen. Focus on what "IS". How is he treating the child today. #3: If you are concerned that something might be happening, get your child and yourself in with a child counselor. #4: Stop trying to change him and face the truth. He is who he is. Getting mad because he does what he has always done (click here) |
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Dr. Tracy Kemble
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Date Posted: 16:34:16 04/19/07 Thu
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Shannon Armstrong
's message, "Emotional Abusive Person - How Do Deal With Him As A Parent To Our Daughter" on 09:38:09 04/07/07 Sat
is as useless as getting mad at water because it is wet. You need to just accept that this is who he is and make your choices knowing that he is this way, rather than becoming leveled by him just being his definition of 'normal'. Hope this helps.
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